I have a 12 year old son who has been slipping off the rails for years. At primary school he was often in trouble for various things but it's escalated since he started secondary school. I'm constantly getting letters/phonecalls about him being cheeky, answering back, messing around in class, fighting and a couple of times truancy.
The latest one was where the school called to say they've had a phonecall from the local tesco manager to say a group of kids from the school had been identified as the ones who have been shoplifting from the store for the past 6 months. He said he wouldn't press charges this time but they're all banned from the premises and if he catches them on there again, it will be the police he calls.
The kids were spoken to by the local police/school officer, his pocket money has been stopped for 6 weeks and he had a good telling off by his father and myself (seperated).
Last night I went in his room and there was a can of monster in his bed (that's what he was stealing from tesco). I asked where he'd got it and he said his friend bought him it (these cans are about £1.50 each so unlikely) and his brother tells me he's started going into a different shop in a morning on the way to school with one of the girls involved in the tesco thing.
I don't know where to go from here. I can't prove he stole this can but I'm sure he must have done?! He doesn't have money of his own. Where do I go from here? He's going to end up with a record. He's obsessed with gangs/prisons/criminals etc, records all the documentaries about prisons and gangs, keeps asking about Charles Bronson etc
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MyaCondria · 01/02/2013 11:32
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