DS1 is 15, he'll be 16 in May. I'm a lone parent, his father is not particularly involved (sporadic contact), and I have another DS aged 13. We have a good relationship generally. We have the occasional argument but in the main everything goes along in a stable and calm manner.
I got a letter home today from the police . It informed me that DS1 had been caught smoking at the local hangout.
I'm really disappointed in him, I smoked and he always hated it (this is all so predictable). Anyway, I'm not sure what to do really, I've spoken to him calmly, and told him that I don't go out to work to give him money to spend on fags! I've told him that I'm disappointed and upset.
Now I'm a bit stuck. Ive told him that he's not going out this weekend and that youth club is also not happening (hit him where he lives) for a few weeks - this is for me getting a letter from the police
Is there anything else I should be doing?
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He is smoking!
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StressDaily · 10/01/2013 21:25
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