My Dsd's mum has decided she wants to change contact. Starting this half term instead of us seeing Dsd for half the week she wants the term time arrangement, i.e. Wednesday night thru Thursday afternoon, and Friday night until 5 on Saturday.
Dsd is almost 9 and the contact arrangements have been Wednesday night after school until drop off at school on Thursday, and pick up from school Friday until 5 on Saturday and half the holidays for the last three years. Dsd has previously said she wants more time with us but her mum won't consider it, I can understand that. Dsd is going to be really upset if she is here for less time in the holidays.
In June Dsd's mum, and her H moved a further 20mins away so total journey for us is now 45 min, that's fine but she wanted to change Dsd's school mid term which concerned DH. He took advice andcwas told tough, she's the resident parent and can do what she likes and Dsd's views are not determinative in any way as she's too young.
Following that advice DH feels there is little he can do about the latest situation.
I've suggested he asks her for mediation, as she is currently refusing to discuss it at all, and if she won't to apply to Court to regulate contact by order. DH is terrified he'll end up with even less....
What should we do?
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emskaboo · 17/10/2009 18:55
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