Just wondered what people's reactions are to this - my DH has a contact order to see his DS. It's very defined due to problems with X witholding contact etc, and it took 5 years in the court system to get it into place.
We have 3 w/ends out of 4 plus an evening contact per week. But when DH went to pick up his DS this week nobody was home. Finally we get a text saying they're on holiday and won't be back until Sunday (also supposed to be our weekend)
Apart from how very unfair this is on the child, who likes to know exactly how many sleeps there are until he sees Daddy next and was dropped off last week (in front of X) with the words 'see you next week', it completely beggars our w/end plans as we're supposed to be going to spend the w/end with my brother as it's my neice's birthday party. If we still go, we can't pick up DSS, if we don't, our 2 DC's miss out.
I wouldn't mind if it was a family holiday, (well, I'd still object to not being told about it,) but DSS knew nothing about a holiday last week, and they've already been away in the first 2 weeks of the holiday.
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Dss suddenly 'on holiday' during contact time
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mmrred · 28/08/2009 14:54
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28/08/2009 18:59
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