Hi mums! The situation is.. my toddler and I are very happily settled near some family and friends.
In another part of the country my husband has a 12yr old son from his previous marriage, as contact has been very tricky I have not yet even met him.
We have also had a few marital problems, largely contributed to by my husband not working(and major financial problems too from when we owned a house).
Now my husband wants to move to be nearer his son which I totally understand but it will mean an absolute lifestyle change for my daughter and I, and a big-loss for mostly myself.
We did attempt to move once before but after selling everything and driving there, we couldnt secure a place, after which he deeply assured me that we would never leave where we have settled now. I feel really stuck with what to do. Whether we move or not, my husband says he will not be able to work whilst the court case is happening as we (trully) could not pay for it.
Need some feedback here!
Thanks
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SHould I move house for husband to be near stepson?
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annebroo · 17/03/2008 22:32
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