Hi all, I'd like to get a range of views really. I'm mum to a ds who has a sm who does ALL the childcare stuff..reading, baths, pick ups, homework when he's at his father's. Ex pushed for a midweek night and after expressing concerns that it wouldn't be worth it because he works late/upheaval I agreed. Sm was able to pick up and take to school. Overtime, her mum has started doing this as sm can't anymore so Ds goes back to SGM house on that night until sm finishes work. Ds is OK with this ( he's just 7) but I'm put out because it seems my time with ds is compromised not for more time with dad but for more time with SM family.
Should I care? Say anything? Is this 'right'? Seeing as I've agreed to the midweek night should I just put up with whatever their arrangements are even if I think ds time would be better spent differently? Many thanks for your views...
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nobutts · 10/01/2013 15:52
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