Our son is 20 months old and has never slept through. We refuse to let him cry it out (AP parents) but we are both shattered and NEED to find a solution.
My wife breastfed on demand for a yr and mid-week attends to him during the night; I do the weekend shift. It has gotten so bad that we just cannot face the thought of another child despite wanting another. As we have no family within 400 miles we have not had a night off since he was born as she invariably wakens when she hears him crying.
When he wakens he usually settles within a minute (unless teething), but normally wakens 2-5 times for no obvious reason. About once a week though he will not settle, he doesnt cry, but gets hyper and wants to play or say all his words etc. it can take up to 2 hrs to get him back to sleep. We dont engage talk, play or encourage him, he just wont sleep! We are at a point now whereby our social life is non-existent, we are losing touch with friends, I am exhausted at work and we are in bed at 1930 most nights to try and get what little sleep we can; he is turning us into zombies!
Any ideas on how to stop this cycle as we are desperate?
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20 months, never slept through
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Cwodavids · 05/06/2015 20:30
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