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This has only just become an issue for us as DS1 started school in Sept. This year we're pulling him out for a week to go skiing, but I'm just wondering how other families cope with the high prices, lack of availability, and crowds of peak weeks. So:

- Do you book really early - like a year or more in advance?
- Do you always go back to the same place, thereby getting first dibs on peak weeks?
- Do you go at Christmas, which has availability, but isn't ideal with small DC due to gifts and grandparents, etc.
- Do you think 'Sod it' and pull them out of school for a week?

I'm driving myself crazy trying to work out what we should do in 2014. The peak weeks of new year and Feb half-term are already booked up for places that take early bookings and I'm a bit scared to book SC in case we can't get childcare (which we need for six days for DC2).

We're taking DS out of school this year, but we're booking for next year as soon as we get back. There was pretty much no choice because of childcare restrictions when we booked for February because we'd left it very late.

yes, we book almost as soon as we come back

we have been going to the same place each year for a while but last year decided to try somewhere new and would never go back to meribel due to some fecker scartching 5 panels on the hire car

dont fancy christmas nor pulling them out of school.

Skiing is very expensive, have you thought about driving, train and self catering ?

We book early, and drive, at half term. This year and last we have stayed in a very large sc chalet with friends which is in the Portes du Soleil region in France but in a village. Then we drive somewhere different to ski every day. This works now as our children are experienced enough not to need lessons. The ski hire is much cheaper in a small village as well - about half what we paid in centre of resort! Last year's holiday with skiing on first and last Saturdays so 8 days skiing cost us just under £600 per head in half term week - all in, including food, travel, overnight stops and spending money etc (but no lessons).

I wouldn't be put off sc because of childcare though - we have used a resort English nanny service previously which worked fine for us, and it was independent of any ski company (Cheeky Monkeys, in Morzine but I'm sure other resorts have similar).

We pulled our daughter out the first time we went but we have 4 school age kids now so not really an option!

We went at Christmas to a tiny resort, drove there, did s/c, had a baby with us but 4 adults present so we shared the childcare rather than put her in a crèche.
We went with another family and agreed a set number of presents for each child (think it was one big present from parents, one present from the other family, plus a stocking which we'd coordinated the contents of) - other presents were opened after the holiday.
This is the best and most wholesome Christmas I've ever had. We skied 6 hours every day (except Christmas Day, just did morning which wax fab, really quiet).
I can't bring myself to pay half term prices, but we have also done 1st week of Easter hols which has always been fine. Both places (Engelberg and Les Gets) you needed a telecabine to get out of the village, but there was plenty of snow higher up.

This is great - thank you all for sharing your strategies.

have you thought about driving, train and self catering?
Yes, I'm considering everything. I've actually got a spreadsheet with all the different info on because all my bits of paper were becoming too confusing.

harrassed I'm really impressed that you managed to do half-term for £600 a head! That's amazing. It sounds like your DC are older than mine though and I'm finding that childcare can really add up. Once my boys are skiing with us every day (or with each other - I'm sure we'll be too slow for them!), our costs will go down considerably.

We've tried all sorts. First time, we booked up just four weeks before travelling at February half term, and ended up driving, SC, and booking DS2 into a nursery for most of the week. However, we crashed the car so what was supposed to be a cheap holiday wound up being very stressful and expensive! We were unlucky though, and although I don't think we'll drive ourselves skiing again, all other aspects of that holiday worked really well.

For our second attempt, we went the week before half term to cut down costs, and (marginally) cut down the queues. The kids were still young (7 and 4) so school was only an issue for the older one anyway, but I did still feel guilty. There was a group of us, with several children, all of skiing age by now, so we skiied in the morning while they went to ski school, and then some of us would stay with the younger ones in the afternoon while others skied on.

Last year we went away for Christmas, which was actually really nice. Again, we went as a group which helped with the afternoons after ski school finished. We agreed that no-one would take too many presents, and focused on small things we could take easily. We then caught up with grandparents when we got back. It made for a slightly hectic Christmas period, but we enjoyed it.

This year, we are taking a two week trip (leaving tomorrow ) so will be taking the boys out of school for one week, and the other coincides with half term. We're going to Austria which has longer ski school days, so there should be less of an issue with childcare after ski school as I imagine most of us will be ready to wrap up around that time anyway.

However, we crashed the car

Oh dear. That's not what you need on holiday

But I'm very of your two-week trip to Austria.

My kids are 13, 10 and 9 and I am taking them for the first time this year. The 13 year old was conceived in Megeve and it has taken this long for us to be able to afford to go again!
We are going on the Friday so 1 day off school- easyjet flights Bristol to innsbruck £130 each, guesthouse £700 suite with extra bed for the 5 of us. £200 private taxi transfer. So so far its just over £300 each. we will have lift passes and ski school on top but thats about the same price whenever you go. Austria ski school is 4 hours per day so we wont need extra childcare. Its expensive but we are so excited at this point that its been worth it already!
As for the crowds we'll have to wait and see!
Have fun.

sod it, pull him out of school.

We take ours out of school for a week.

They're still in primary ATM. Haven't thought about when they're in secondary yet!

Have always pulled them out of school before (including this week!) but have booked for next year already in feb half term.

We are lucky - we have a small house in the southern Alps, (20 mins from Les Orres, 35 mins from Risoul) that we go to every year. It is in the valley and so you need a car, but there are loads of different options for skiing (big places and teeny, cheap places). My DB went last year with 3 DCs, and he reckoned it cost him about £1200 for the week including ski hire, passes, driving, ferry and £350 for me. I think the DIY option is the cheapest, but it doesn't work for everyone.

When DSs were younger we used the Halte Guarderie - French nursery - they were always surprisingly flexible. But doubt that would be the case during half term when I am sure they are chocca bloc.

I would never take them out of school. I either plan in advance (a year ahead) or have also gone very last minute before with a bargain.

Options are to go for a less "touristy" place - go skiing where the local Austrians, Italians go, etc even if you've never heard of it and you are the only Brit there! The children then tend to learn to ski in much cheaper local ski schools.

So either DIY or a last minute package.

If your children are still quite young then I would just take them out of school. The schools will discourage it as it affects their OFSTED but under the age of 8 (so upto year 3) they really won't miss much. We always took ours out of school when they were little ( normally first week of Jan as it was 3 days rather than a whole week) but DS is now at senior school so we are tied to school hols.
I can highly recommend Family Friendly sking in La Tania (3 Vallees) - they have nannies in the chalet. You arrange your own transport ( drive, fly or train ) but they can provide transfers. When your kids are little having child care makes a huge difference to a ski holiday. Also look at Ski Magic which is also in La Tania and provides a similar service They offer free child places for some off season weeks.

Once you are tied to school hols it is expensive and the only way to keep the costs down is to drive and stay in either less well known resorts or slightly down the mountain from the world class resorts.
We have now bought an apartment in Brides les Bains which is in the 3 Vallees but not ski in /out - however, so much cheaper than staying Meribel or Courcheval. We still ski the same slopes but either take the gondola to Meribel or drive up to Meribel and park there ( underground parking is about €8 per day). If you stay further down the mountain then everything tends to cheaper - ski hire, food shopping, restaurants etc. We just need to factor 20 mins travelling time to get to Meribel / ski school ( a bit like a short commute to work !).
With young children needing child care then I would definately go for a catered chalet with in house nannies but once they are old enough to ski for most of the day ( age 6 upwards) then self catering works well.
We are renting our apartment out so if anyone is interested please contact me. Next season, we will probably go at Christmas so half term and New Year will be available.
Easter is late next year which may put more pressure on Half term and the xmas/New Year hols.

Further to my mesage above, I thought I would post how we got on in BLB, self catering and with a private nanny. It all worked really well. We drove so took out some frozen meals from COOK to make life easy.
The nanny arrived at 8.15am to look after our youngest and take her to ski school for 11.30am. We jumped in the car ( parked in the underground carpark) and drove 20 minutes to Meribel and parked in an underground car park directly under the ski school meeting point and lift area. So literally one short flight of stairs with ski boots and skis. We could have parked in a free car park abit further away but with 3 kids the €8 approx we paid a day was a good investment! Plus the ski hire in BLB was so much cheaper than in Meribel that we easily covered the parking costs just on that element of the holiday.
DS aged 12 skied with us, DS age 8 and ski lessons 9.15am to 1.30pm and DD aged 5 was 11.30 to 1.30pm. We used an alternative ski school to ESF so classes were small and the instructor spoke perfect English.
The nanny took DD to ski school ( via the Gondola from BLB which took 20 mins), we had a couple of days where the nanny picked up both children from ski school so we could ski all day and one afternoon when all 3 went back to the apartment with her as swimming was considered more exciting than skiing.
We are going again at xmas and have already booked a private nanny for 5 afternoons to do ski school collection.
We managed to do the drive from BLB to Calais in 8 hours and got back to our house in the UK by 9pm. All very civilised.
If your budget allows then a quality catered chalet with childcare is lovely. Having a ski in ski out location is also great but you pay a premium and quite often find that beginners can't actually ski in / out anyway as the piste is too difficult for them.
If like us you find the prices too high ( especially in school hols) then there are good alternatives. There are several other resorts in France that are similar to Brides where you can find good value self catered accomodation but with easy access to a top class ski resort.