dh is always moaning that we dont spend much time on foreplay (huh yeah a i know a bloke moaning about lack of foreplay!). Thing is weve got two children 4 and and 17mths and im the main carer so im always knackered and not in the mood for sex. I want to in my head but my body just wants to go to sleep. So if dh wants i find myself getting bored or counting the minutes and wishing to just get on with the deed. I used to enjoy foreplay but sex is such an effort in itself. Once we are doing the deed i strat to enjoy myself-however as soon as its over i turn over and go sleep god i sound like such a man!!!!
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does anyone else not want to bother with foreplay and just wanna get on with it....
(5 Posts)There are times when I totally agree. Just bloody get on with it! But not always 
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