Background context: I'm pregnant through IVF after a long period of unexplained infertility. I'm well over half way now and visibly pregnant. During my own fertility testing, my best friend learned that she is unable to have children, obviously a devastating blow to her. She knew that I was due to go through IVF last year, though I avoided discussing it with her as I was conscious it was sensitive. When I learned I was successfully pregnant I reached out for advice on MN about how to broach it. As advised, I told her privately over text before telling any other friends, keeping just to factual details like gestation and due date. She responded positively, though I understand that behind closed doors it may have caused upset. I've since avoided instigating any conversation about the pregnancy and only share details if she (or others, as we have a group chat with other girlfriends) ask first. The unusual message occurred this afternoon. I sent a message to our group chat wishing them a happy Galentine's. She responded with a photo of her out with friends from a different social circle, toasting with wine and food, captioned "Happy Friday, sorry you're pregnant". I don't know how to interpret it, but it made me uncomfortable. It presents at face value as a joke about me not being able to drink, but it felt like it had a deeper meaning, e.g. "sorry you're pregnant and I'm not". Which I do understand is something she likely does feel, but telling someone who's experienced infertility and is finally pregnant that you're "sorry" for them strikes me as unkind. Nobody else has since responded to my initial message or acknowledged hers, so I suspect they've found the exchange awkward. Anyway, my queries to MN users: Am I being oversensitive? Should I ignore it until a new conversation is instigated, or do I need to reach out and check in on her, raising my concern that there's a deeper meaning to her choice of words?