I ended my marriage after discovering my husband of 25 years had cheated on me. He was having an affair for nearly a year with a woman I know. It then came out that he had cheated on me before with lots of different women and had cheated on his first wife too. He had lied to me about the reasons his first marriage ended.
He bragged to some of his friends about cheating on me and came over as a total sleaze in his texts to OW.
I thought he was a decent man with values, morals and respect for me. I never had him down as a cheat let alone a womaniser. I was totally oblivious to what he was up to. He was really the last person I thought would do anything like this and yet it seems he's cheated for most of his adult life.
How did I not realise what he was like. I don't understand how I can live with a man for 25 years and not have any idea at all that he is such a bastard. How could my judgement be that badly wrong for all of that time?
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How did I get him so wrong?
iwashappy · 18/02/2015 21:27
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