Hi have posted b4
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2204757-sexting-hubby
Today I've told him I need a break, he was begging and stuff on the phone and came home early so we could talk.
Once home we did talk (and cry....a lot ) and I honestly told him I no longer trust him and need a break to see if I can get my head around what happened and if our marriage can survive this. He did say he will do anything to gain my trust back and he loves me more than anything and he knows his mistake and doesn't want to lose me that me and the kids are everything to him and he's scared as as soon as he leave he feels that's it 4 us.
I am in so much pain emotionally,I feel sick.
How do I deal with these feelings and IF I can get around this how do I fix my marriage. And if I can't how do I move on with the guilt of hurting him (I know what he did to me but I can't help how I feel) I have no clue how to feel, act, figure out if it's 100% the right thing?
My head is just a fog right now. I still haven't told the kids as I fort 4 the best he leave b4 they gt home from school coz seeing us crying and stuff is not what they need to see. But now I can't face telling them alone and want to wait 4 my mum to finish work and be here as my support.
Sorry to go on but I just needed some advice as I am in such a state right now x
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bossmummy1 · 10/10/2014 16:07
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