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Are we weird??? Toys & Undies & Costumes????

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Twinkie1 · 25/05/2006 21:45

Is it just DP and I that don't have any of the above - I don't even have sexy knickers as he prefers them not to be on at all and I would die if he brought home (which thank god I know he wouldn't) a vibrator or anything - we both talked about it after I went to an A Summers party the other week (they had games that made ne blush and we had to shout out rude words and some of them I didnlt even know the meaning of!!!) and now think we must be the only couple who don't indulge - don't get me wrong I am perfectly happy with that side of our life, I can't understand why you would buy a plastic todger if you have a perfectly good one at home to be honst but maybe I am just a prude - no please tell me I'm not the only one though!!!! Blush

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Twinkie1 · 25/05/2006 21:55

Bet you all thinking this is a we have loads of them thread and are sorely disappointed!!!

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SoupDragon · 25/05/2006 21:58

You don't have any undies? At all?? Do you go knickerless Shock

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Twinkie1 · 25/05/2006 22:06

Would never go out with no pants on and boobs aren;t in a state after feeding 2 kids not to wear a bra so the answer is of course I have undies - just practical ones not sexy ones or ones that you would wear to go to bed or excite DP!!!

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Ulysees · 25/05/2006 22:06

I don't rate vibes at all anyway but my mate swore by the lipstick from AS and she wasn't wrong Grin I have a few vibes (omg I sound like a horndog!!Blush) but have given up on them.

Don't knock it 'til you tried it though as loads swear by them Wink

Lucky you having a good sex life with your dp, i haven't but I'm always pleased others have Smile

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Twinkie1 · 25/05/2006 22:39

Now deffo feel like a complete weirdo - bet you lot are off to jiggle with your toys dressed in nylon whilst I am happy to sit here and type away!!!

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TheMammy · 25/05/2006 23:22

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catsmother · 26/05/2006 10:26

Twinkie, the only time anyone needs to worry about their sex life is if they (the people involved) aren't happy with it.

It doesn't matter if you are at it all the time (with or without sexy undies) or just once a year at Xmas, if you get off on whipped cream, rubber knickers or whips ........... so long as YOU and your partner are both happy and consenting to whatever it is you get up to.

Why should you want to get toys if you are already perfectly content with what you do do ? So don't feel weird about it.

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