STBXH moved out 6 months ago. Lives in a bedsit and wont have kids over night as it isnt suitable.
He is really really poorly. Ive been trying to persuade him to come and stay, so we can feed him/look after him and beacuse he has no heating. he refuses
So I went round with dd1 today to check on him. i cant stop crying. He lives in a SHIT HOLE. I mean REALLY REALLY REALLY hideous. His room is ok, but damp. But the communal areas/bathroom/kitchen are condemable. The toilet leaks and the house stinks of piss. The bathroom is black with mould.
I feel so so so guilty
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XH living in a shit hole, feel awful, dont know what to do
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