He told me last night. I am shocked and appalled.
It was a long time ago (more than 20 years ago), he was very young, on a lads holiday to Amsterdam.
He asked me if I thought bad of him (three times) and each time I replied, "Yes I do think less of you to be honest"
I hate the sex industry I tried explaining to him about coercion, exploitation, abuse, women as commodities etc. He was comfortable with his simplistic view of empowered women choosing to freely sell sex as a way to make good money on the free market. I know that I challenged these views, which he has held on to, unchallenged for a very long time. I'm not sure what he really thinks/believes and I am struggling with the whole thing today.
I am finding it hard to forgive and forget but don't feel that I am in the right place emotionally to make any clear decision about this relationship at the moment (separate, external factors, signed off work etc)
Any perspectives on this?
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BF told me he had sex with a prostitute
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snailfiddler · 28/11/2012 18:33
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