I divorced my ex in 2010 after nearly 40 years together because of his inappropriate relationship with OW.
I started dating someone earlier this year who I had known as an acquaintance since the summer of 2010. We get on very well; he is caring, kind and considerate and in the last few months, has made me realise how loveless and empty my marriage had been. I love the companionship and fun we now have and am quite content.
But.......he is totally and completely besotted with me and has told me that he is in love with me and loves me. I believe I am in love with him too but I just am unable to say iit although everything I do demonstrates it. Is it because after the betrayal of my XH, my defences have come up? Is it because it is all too raw and emotional? Can someone who has gone through this please advise as I feel that I am being unfair and unkind? Or is this normal and I just have to be patient?
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Why can't I say I love him?
ANewDoll · 13/05/2012 23:26
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