Mumsnet Talk

I posted on here a few weeks ago about my loss of libido and husbands PE.I was desperate as I felt my marriage was deteriorating.
I got some good advice and some not so good. But I took the good advice and finally spoke to my husband . I told him that our relationship was not too good and we were both responsible and we were also both responsible for making it better. I told him sex held no pleasure for me and wam bam thank you mam had made me less eager to have sex. I read some articles on mens sexuality and made an effort to try and please him for a few nights BUT I did find this was not reciprocated so I stopped . I got some books and have read them but hubby did not even glance at them. I was going to talk to him again this weekend as he had made no effort what so ever to read the books or even talk about it UNTIL this morning.
Neither of us could sleep. Me because of back pain heart burn and usual insomnia and him because I was a bit restless. He actually took me in his arms and kissed me for ages and then we had what I call proper two sided sex which we have not done for ages. It was wonderful !
He then said he knew he had been a selfish sod and agreed that it was no wonder I did not want sex any more as he was in and done with no thought for me.
I wonder why he let it go n for so long but then again so did I .
I hope this is a new start for us and am looking forward to more of the same .

Great news Dinkiedoo, long may it continue

Yey! I am happy for you

Excellent! Well done. Make sure he doesn't slip back into his old ways

keep it up !

< boom boom >

AF the point is we don't want boom boom! We want that happened this morning!

hehe

Sex

it's fab, innit

Ah that's great.

<nods in agreement with AF>