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Hayley, Phoebe staying in South Africa for longer, I think, didn't hear the whole thing, either. Haley is putting on brave face around likes of Jennifer, but quietly devastated. Haley was replaying over & over again a text with music from Feebs (I think) whilst sobbing.
Kate Aldridge has been needing a slap re her parenting of Phoebe for the last 14 years. (Phoebe is the same age as dd1, dd2 was born about 3 days after Nolly and I think Sipho might be the same age as dd3 - oh and I think Kate is the same age as me - she's stalking my life!)