Hi
I feel really upset today, sorry probably hypersensitive on anything to do with my ds.
However I moved him to a new school in which he was the only new boy in class.
The move seemed to go okay which I felt reassured about and at a parent discussion evening I had with his teacher going back to around the end of september reassured me all the more so as my ds's teacher told me that he was doing really well and was very popular with lots of friends and that everyone was always eager to chat to my ds.
My ds has not had any playdates as yet at this school and doesn,t really show too much interest when I ask him if there is anyone that he would like to come one of the days.
He seems to have made good friends with one boy in his class and I have seen them together and they do seem to get on well my ds did ask for this boy to come to our house but this boys mom wasn,t that forthcoming with the offer.
I have not been able to establish if there are other good relationships he has established and he never communicates that well with me on this sort of thing.
However this morning he was asking for a boy from his old school to come over and I said okay thats fine but I also said again to him that maybe it would be nice if he started to have someone from his new school.
He seems to clam up when I mention this and he then told me that he doesn,t like any of them and that he never plays with any of them and that none of them are his friends.
I asked him if he plays with the boy that he seems to have made a friend out of and he told me that this boy also plays with another one and that this other boy won,t let him play as well and is always mad at him.
He said that at first everyone played with him but not now.
I feel quite sad today and I am not sure what to do or even if maybe my ds is exagerating on this.
I feel like driving up and watching him on the playground to see what I find.
Do you think I should have a word with his teacher about him.
I can,t bear to think of him with no friends at school.
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I feel gutted that ds told me this morning that he doesn,t play with anyone at school
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crazyashell · 24/11/2008 09:52
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