So, right at this moment, my 10 year old ds1 is hiding round the back of the garage, pretending to have "run away". I'm not too worried, he's taken his school bag, coat and at least put on shoes this time before storming out, so he'll probably make his own way to school as soon as he sees his friend walk past. This is because I asked him to pick stuff off the floor before going to school. I'm trying not to reward his behaviour by chasing after him and demanding he come inside. I'm guessing that the coldness of the weather will be a suitable consequence for it anyway.
The problem is, this is becoming an all too regular occurrence as a tantrum response. When he was younger, he would storm up to his room, slam the door and stomp around loudly. 'Running away' seems to be the upgrade to this. He's generally a good kid but has a short fuse, and I really don't want to get into the spiral of tiptoeing around him to avoid him reacting like this, because that clearly isn't healthy either.
So, I'm sat here, feeling very tearful and hoping that his mate will snap him out of it so that we don't end up having to have a major confrontation to get him to school. Would welcome any advice how to deal better with this in future - it's not going to be too long before he can figure out that being somewhere much further out of sight or vanishing to a friend's house will be a much better 'punishment' for me if he doesn't want to do something and I really don't want it to get to that stage :(
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"Fine then, I'll GO!" Fed up of my 10 year old 'running away' - ideas please?
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RubberDuck · 21/10/2011 08:38
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