Am I right in thinking that the reasons kids go to pre-school are (a) to give them opportunities to socialise with their peers, and (b) to prepare them for school? And I suppose also (c) to give Mum a break.
Ds has a place to start at our village pre-school in April, which we booked up over a year ago. The thing is ...
Ds doesn't seem to enjoy mixing with his peers that much. He ends up losing his rag (big-time) over toy-sharing, gets frustrated trying to communicate with them, and lately has been asking me to make his two- and three-year-old playdates 'go away' . On the other hand, playing with older kids and adults (which ds gets to do a lot) brings out the absolute best in him, and he loves it. So that brings (a) into question.
Also, we've been looking into home education since ds was about one and of course, if we decide to go down that route, then there's no need to worry about preparing him for school (b).
And we lean towards attachment parenting, so I'm not interested in having ds prised off me in tears in order for him to 'get used' to pre-school.
I feel under pressure to send ds to pre-school ? it seems expected either these days, or at least where we live ? and yet all of the above begs the question, should we just take ds's name off the list and carry on as we are? If we do this, and decide on conventional schooling, will he settle in OK without pre-school? Thanks.
(Also posted on Home Ed board.)
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EggyBreadAndBeans · 21/02/2007 23:54
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