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Considering owning a dog? Please read this.

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valhala · 05/09/2009 23:14

This is a bit of a soapbox subject for me, so please forgive me if I get carried away!

If you are considering owning a dog, now or in the future, may I suggest that instead of contacting a breeder you contact some rescues?

As well as helping practically in my local rescue I am what they call a "network volunteer". I get tens of calls and emails each day about dogs which are either in pounds or with owners who can no longer keep them and my task is to find those dogs suitable rescue places before they are put to sleep.

As a result of my experiences I have seen not only the heartbreaking side, where I have sat up until the early hours to save a dogs life but also many beautiful, friendly and affectionate dogs moving on to loving family homes and my aim here is to reach out and increase that number.

You may not know this but if a stray is taken to a pound he has just 7 days grace before the pound is permitted to put him to sleep... and so many do. A dog which is surrendered to the pound by an owner can be killed immediately. These poor creatures need all the help they can get - as the saying goes, "why breed and buy while others die?".

This is why I am asking that you consider rescue....

A decent rescue will not just homecheck you but will match your family and circumstances to the right dog and offer lifetime support. You may find your ideal companion in a local, independent rescue or in a national one, you may have a breed in mind and find your friend through websites such as Biggsd or Bullies In Need, you may find the Oldies website has a calm, older family friend. Remember that not all rescue dogs are strays with no history, many have lived in family homes which can no longer keep them and that any reputable rescue will assess a dog thoroughly before placing him with your family so that he is safe with your children, cats or other pets. Such rescues will also neuter and vaccinate your friend before he goes home with you.

We struggle to find rescue on a daily basis and last Christmas was the worst I have ever seen with more dogs in pounds and about to die than ever before. Of course, if dogs in rescues are not re-homed there is no space to save the lives of those languishing in the pounds across the country.

Of all the dogs which I have helped, both pedigree and crossbreeds, Staffies and Greyhounds make up perhaps the greatest number. They are much maligned but Staffs make wonderful, loyal family companions and Greyhounds don't need miles of walks each day, just a couple of half hour ones then they are ready to loll about with their legs in the air and make the most marvellous, gentle and well mannered pets.

I think I have jabbered enough but just in case you are wondering, yes, I do have children, dogs and cats and all my dogs are and have been rescued and I have had dogs since long before my children were born and throughout their lives.

So, if you are considering owning a dog or may do in the future, please, look at those in your local rescue and search the net for rescues across the country, many of whom are willing and able to rehome a dog despite the distance between you and him and please do pm me if you'd like advice in finding a rescue as I have many contacts nationwide, or if you need assistance in any way.

Thank you for reading this.

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guineamango · 06/09/2009 07:56

Bumping for you!

cluckyagain · 06/09/2009 08:05

Awww

Blackduck · 06/09/2009 08:16

Mu mutt (currently chasing rabbits in his sleep) is a rescue hound - would never get a dog from anywhere else. Ds wants his 'own' dog, but will wait a few mores years (and hopefully move somewhere more suited to dog owning...)

TheDMshouldbeRivened · 06/09/2009 08:24

My mum did this for years. Ran White Knights aniaml rescue from her house with a team of volunteers.
Its why she ended up with 14 of her own!

hercules1 · 06/09/2009 08:29

Fantastic post!

morethanyoubargainfor · 06/09/2009 08:30

we have just (wednesday) had a rescue dog move in withus! he is a lurcher and so far so good, he cam e with no history as he was originally a dtray on death row in ireland. He lives with my other dog, cat,fish,stick insects and children. I have to say he ROCKS .

bubblepop · 06/09/2009 09:25

hey thanks for posting. i have been checking out rspca sites recently as we are considering it. ive noticed though, that nearly all the dogs seem to be either rotties or staffies/staffy crosses..which put me off..maybe im ignorant. we have a large noisy family, with 2 young children under 5yrs,and every advert for re-homing seems to say 'suitable for children over 12yrs' ?
however, i know we could offer a loving home to a doggy friend, we have a lovely large garden and plenty of rural walks near by.Plus im at home all day..our new pet would never be left for long periods of time.any thoughts appreciated.

valhala · 06/09/2009 10:50

Thank you all for such a positive response guys. Morethanyoubargainfor, it sounds like you know the situation with Irish strays sadly too well. I've been instrumental in getting a lot off of death row in Ireland over the years and its always extra heatwarming to hear a story like yours. Give your leggy friend a hug from me too!

bubblepop,oh gawd, where do I start....!!!

The rescue where I help out on a practical basis has just rehomed a SBT cross to a family with young children - cos she is gorgeous there's a risk that she may well lick them to death! They also have a huge, unflappable, lolloping cuddly Rottie there and you've far more chance of being snapped out by their cute looking Jack Russell - you honestly just can't stereotype.

The same goes for children. There are some families to whom I would NEVER home a dog, for the dog's sake. I must admit to having no patience whatsoever with the type of children who are allowed to pull a dog about! My own kids have many faults just like any others but I can boast that they are brilliant with animals. I always knew that they wouldn't be climbing all over my dogs or pulling them around because they always knew that if they did they may get bitten and would have deserved it and would receive absolutely no sympathy! The RSPCA tends to be very inflexible in it's approach - rules is rules and all that. An independent rescue might both have a wider selection of dogs and a more personally-tailored rehoming policy.

If I were you I'd be tempted to look up a few Greyhound rescues too - they and Lurchers frequently make such great family friends.

Good luck!

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galen · 06/09/2009 11:09

Good post! We are looking for a dog atthe moment - BUT I have spent literally DAYS checking out all possible recue centre anywhere near us, and ALL of them have said not suitable for a home with young children Our youngest is 18 months - so obviously we need to find a dog suitable for young children. We have put a lot of thought into getting a dog - budgeted for insurance, vets, worming, food, bed, toys etc... thought about holiday arrangements, thought about walking and excerise , thought about how we would ensure a seperate area for our younger children to play away from dog while they were getting used to each other etc.... But still it seems we will not be able to get a rescue dog - so will no doubt end up getting a puppy from a breeder....

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valhala · 06/09/2009 11:47

Oh beggar me, I despair! Galen, you are just the sort of parent I would like to meet and would be delighted to home a dog to - all credit to you for all you have done and your responsible preparation.

If you want to pm me with an idea of whereabouts you are and the type/age/sex/size etc of dog you are looking for I will see if I can come up with any suggestions. No promises, but it may be worth a try and I'm more than happy to give it a go for you.

Seems to me that the b**y rescues you have met don't know a good offer when they see it.

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spenthen · 07/09/2009 10:52

So pleased to find this thread! I've literally just made the call to offer a home to a beautiful lurcher we visited yesterday at a well-established rescue near Peterborough.

It's been months in the "thinking about it" stage and I can't quite believe it's now actually happening. We're collecting him on Saturday (have already been homechecked by another rescue), so I have the week to do lots of doggie shopping and lots of worrying myself silly!

He's so beautiful, but rather underweight so I'll be off to the vet next week to make sure we're doing everything right. My first ever dog, our first family dog, I'm sure I'll be starting my own thread on here but it's brilliant to see there are already lurcher rescuers on here with positive experiences, and I feel calmer just for reading this thread. So thank you very much!

valhala · 10/09/2009 23:18

Spenthen, if you are ever in need of any advice, try the rescue website LurcherLink. The owner of the site is a lady called Kay, a very helpful soul.

Good luck with your new friend... many you have many happy years together.

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galen · 11/09/2009 13:56

Whoohoo we have a new little doggy !!!
We rehomed her from a lady privately - she responded to an add I placed on Freeads. She had been given a new job with very long hours and didnt want her to be on her own for that long.She was so happy to find a home for her and not to have to put her in a rescue!
She is 6 months old. A croswsbreed - of who knows what LOL She was originally abandoned as a puppy, and her old owner ot her form the council rescue centre when she was 10 weeks old.
She is lovely little dog. Great tempremant and used to children. She has been great so far! My 3 yr old is still abit unsure of her - but getting much better, my 18 month old LOVES her - but is still a bit too excitable round her so we are encouraging him to be calmer and gentle with the her.Obviously the children are always well supervised with her and never left alone with her - though she is such a sweetheart and cant imagine her ever snapping...but better safe than sorry LOL
She is just fab and I'm so happy we could giver her a new home!Gin

valhala · 12/09/2009 00:22

Great to hear Galen - and nice to hear of responsible parents too! Its stories like yours which make my tears worthwhile.

I hope that we will see you on one of the forums such as Dogpages with piccies of your new family member, just so I can be jealous of you!

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SparklyGothKat · 12/09/2009 02:19

my parents have just 'reserved' a 11 month old dog from the RSPCA today. We went yesterday and there was nothing there that was suitable for my parents, as we were leaving I said to dad to ask if they knew of any small dogs, and the lady said we have just had one come in. We waited around and they saw her and fell in love She is a jack russell cross chihuahua and a sweetheart.

They couldn;t reserve her yesterday as RSPCA wanted to settle her in for a day, and my parents went back today and arrived nearly an hour before they opened to make sure they were first, lucky they did as some woman also wanted her and tried to get in before they opened. My parents took her for 2 walks today, and have completely fallen in love with her.

My parents dog died 2 months ago aged 10.5 years and although my dad is not completely over his death, I feel that this little dog will bring them much happiness

Vallhala · 24/09/2010 10:50

Shamelessly bumping my own thread in view of the number of threads on here from people who wish to buy puppies.

"WHY BREED AND BUY WHILST OTHERS DIE?".

memoo · 24/09/2010 10:54

We got our dog from a local rescue centre 2 years ago.

She is really daft but the most amazing dog. She is sooo good with the DC. I had DD2 12 months ago and Flora (the dog) is so protective of her but never tries to even lick her or touch her. Its like she just knows she has to be gentle around her.

curlywurlycremeegg · 24/09/2010 10:54

valhala, our cocker spaniel died about 2 years ago and we decided we would like another spaniel so contacted our local springer rescue service to offer a home. They point blank refused to even discuss it as we had never owned a springer before and "their needs are much different to other spaniels", it put me right off contacting other rescue homes :(

JaxTellersOldLady · 24/09/2010 11:00

VAlhalla I salute all you do for rescue dogs and you know how much I love GSDs, but finding one who will rehome with my age kids is practically impossible.

I always keep my ears open and have rescued in the past. It is a great feeling turning their lives around. Smile

Vallhala · 24/09/2010 11:17

Jax, I know it can be hard and that some rescues, especially the big ones, have policies set in stone. Some imho, like that Springer one you contacted, Curly, are bloody idiots doing the dogs in their care - and worse still by far, the dogs who are waiting to die in pounds for want of rescue spaces or homes - a shameful disservice.

The only answer I have is to perservere. Not ALL rescues are as dumb-ass. It's harder but it isn't impossible to find a rescue which will judge on a case by case basis wrt families with young children (or indeed novice owners of the breed).

I'd also say keep an open mind and remember that it's the dog's personality which matters more than anything, not it's breed or what it looks like/it's colour/whatever. I confess to being a GSD addict like Jax BUT my first (male, 9 yo huge long haired) GSD came to me when I had gone looking for an approx 5 yo female Collie or Collie cross!!). Far rather a loving, scruffy, family-friendly crossbreed than a Labrador with a mile long pedigree and an attitude problem!

Look further afield than local rescue to those which rehome across the country and look at both breed and all-breed rescue.

(Oh, and Curly, I dunno about Springers needs being "different". Is that a polite way of admitting that the breed are often as mad as cheese? :o ).

If you'd like to pm me your home area and any relevant info on your family (number/ages of DC, whether there is someone home all day or not, visiting children etc), although I can't promise I can point you in the direction of a suitable rescue I'll certainly try.

catinthehat2 · 24/09/2010 11:42

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chocoholic · 24/09/2010 12:40

Bumping for you.

We got our dog from Friends of the Animals in Wales and we live nowhere near them!

They are a fab rescue organisation who home dogs based on the dogs needs rather than a blanket no children rule. Quite a lot of dogs (including ours!) like to have children around. Smile

KnackeredOldHag · 25/09/2010 15:43

SparklyGothKat, that wouldn't be from the Burton-Upon-Trent RSPCA by any chance would it? Grin