Don't quite know what to do!
First of all - DH and I are on the verge of splitting and sleeping in sep rooms.
Secondly, one of my DTs (age just turned 3) is insisting on sleeping in bed with me (H sleeping upstairs in spare room right now)
So - I was already not thinking that was a good idea. And then. DTD2 started waking at night FREAKING OUT and screaming in her sleep so upset that her sister isn't there when she wakes up, and wanting to know why E isn't in 'their' room.
I, frankly, am so tired that I just want to go straight back to sleep when I get woken. But last night being particularly bad, DTD1 was in my bed, tossing and turning for hours - and then I get woken by DTD2 screaming at the top of the stairs because DTD1 isn't sleeping in 'their' room. I comforted her, tried to put the other DT back into their room...she woke and screamed, H spent 45 mins trying to make them both sleep... argggh - eventually H went back to bed and just a few mins later DTD crept back into my room and I was too shattered to do anything about it.
As it is, it feels like I have to spend the whole night putting her back into bed, waiting for her to calm down, and then trying to get back to bed myself (before she tries 10 mins later to come into my room for the whole cycle to start again) and I am depressed just to think about it.
What are our options? I've just drafted up reward charts, but DTD1 is INTENT on sleeping in my bed, and given the recent ructions with H, I don't want to deprive her of affection. Yet her sister is distraught at being left alone?!!!!
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Ugh, the dreaded problem of coming into our bed - except her twin is freaking out!
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invisibledolly · 25/01/2013 23:00
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