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Just wondering how this works in practice. I love the sound of both these approaches, but wondering how it fits within real life - 3 children, DH working away etc. How do you become a child led parent when you have three children wanting to head off in different directions and need to be on the road for school in three minutes.
Also, does anyone know what child psychologists support these approaches?