Hi, I'm feeling a bit miserable tonight after a generally crap day, and would appreciate a bit of advice.
DS was four last month went to bed in tears because I finally lost my temper and refused to read to him at bedtime after he told me I was 'not a nice mummy' because I refused to play yet another game with him. This after a whole day of me almost constantly entertaining & playing with him & listening to him.
He has always been a bit clingy as a toddler but as he's grown it seems that he cannot entertain himself at all and it is really starting to get to me. From the time he gets up he expects me or DH to play games constantly with him & goes into a huff if we say no.
He talks incessantly, and I mean really non-stop so that if I'm not actually playing with him he'll hover near me & I'm constantly expected to listen to him and answer questions. I usually feel mentally exhausted by the time he goes to bed because I feel like I've been talked 'at' all day.
The minute I leave the room, even when I've told him I'm going to the loo or something, he shouts 'Mummy, where are you?' & comes looking for me. He hates it when I try to do housework or talk on the phone. Even if DH & I try to talk to each other, even just a few sentences, he constantly butts in or does something to get attention back to himself. He even wants one of us to sit with him when he's just watching TV.
Today I've tried to to be patient, but it's just so full-on all the time I feel stressed & irritable and so I snapped at him when he said I was not nice.
I know little children are demanding...it's their job but surely this level of attention seeking is a bit much at this age? Is it because he's an 'only' and so has probably always had attention? I just have no idea how to go about dealing with it without feeling like I'm rejecting him.
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StableButBeheaded · 30/10/2009 23:08
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