I hope you do manage to get some answers, the not knowing whether something is wrong is so frustrating. Then hopefuly the problem will be solved,and you won't have to suffer futher. You get your results in a few weeks don't you?

Can't believe how badly my erpc went,considering how much i went on about it in this thread. Typical.

ahh love, dont suffer, make sure you take pain killers if you need them. Took me about 4 weeks to physically recover from my last 2 mcs, so take your time and give yourself time.

Hmm, thise bloods sound about right, i had about 6 tubes taken from me and dh had one.

There is nothing wrong with the uterus, mcs within the first trimester are usually down to chromosomes, after that them yes, the main cause would likely be associated with the uterus's inability to maintain a pregnancy.

I will wait to see the consultant and hope that i can get some answers in order to get it right nest time.

I honestly cannot keep putting myself through it time and time again. It is more and more painful with each loss and takes me longer and longer to recover physically. Its not healthy.

Hope that you recover quickly and feel ready to try again soon.x

had my erpc- went ok i guess, Im just feeling angry that this has happened, I just keep thinking why me!!

Got some tests etc booked now, so at least Im going forward....

They must be able to do more than that- Are they not going to test for any problems with the uterus,sometimes the shape is abnormal, and they have to inject dye in to the uterus, and take an x-ray, think its called a hysterscopy, or HSG.

With your blood they should have done,a test for antiphospholipid syndrome, thromnophilias, MTHFR gene mutation, thyroid, and progeterone tests, and other blood clotting disorders, and something that stops your body from absorbing follic acid, (that might be the MTHFR gene)They probably have done them, but you should ask just in case they havn't.

You also get natural killer cells CD16/56 and 69 activity, which can be tested for, and I expect they have tested all of these, but I would check, as you never know if they have missed something!

I have spoke to alot of people who's tests revealed something, so if any of your blood tests do show up positive, then with the right treatment you will have a succesful pregnancy.

I hope it works out for you, and I hope you don't give up!!

I think that I'm going to have to have the ERPC I basicaly have no choice, tryed to go private, but couldn't find any where, local to me, and didn't want to travel miles. So lucky me, I've got it tmorrow.

Ahh sorry about that.

So, will you go ahead with the ERCP?

I gave some blood today for checking about chromosones i think, not sure. Got an appointment with a gynae Doc in about 6weeks so hopefully will have some blood results to discuss.
Gynae bloke did say that bloods arelikely to come back as perfectly normal, and from there , there is nothing they can do or offer.
Think we may just give up tbh. Just trying one last time, if it ends badly again, then that will be it for us.

My hospital don't offer medically managed treatment.....

Well its 9 weeks, 4 days, surely that is still small enough...

I know what you mean. Before I used to think that positive pregnancy tests pretty much guaranteed a baby, and that miscarriages were sumthing that 'happened to other people' but I wont be taking that for granted again. I also thought that the only hurdle was actualy getting pregnant, rather than staying pregnant, and I don't know how I can do things differntly next time. Its so horrible, and Im sorry that you have been through what I have, but 4 times. Have you had any tests done yet?

ahh rach, you are not going on at all hun.
I dont have any one in rl that this has happened to so i too have no one really to talk to about it.
Its nice to chat to you x

May be worth exploring this, see what they say. I think that there is a cut off point time wise, not sure when this is though.

We are trying to concieve again now 2 months on.
Its all a gamble.
Unlike you i do not blame myself at all for my 4 mcs. This is because i made sure that i did everything right that i possibly could do.
No alcohol, folic acid, good diet. But still it happened to me.

What really guts me is that i am now incapable of thinking positively where pregnancy is concerned. A positive test means nothing to me, pregnancy symptoms mean nothing to me, i do not allow myself any excitement at all and i feel robbed of this.
Every pregnant woman should feel elated by the pee stick and by feeling sicky and sore boobs.
For me it confirms nothing and has always just meant heartbreak and pain to come.

Sigh, maybe next time. fingers crossed.

Sorry to be going on at you sunburntats, just appreciate someone actually listening to my worries etc, who may have some idea of how I feel.