Not quite sure what to say as my news hasn't fully sunk in yet. Last thursday myself and my husband went for an antenatal scan, where we were told our baby had died. Pregnancy had being going fine. I had spotting a little on Sunday which I knew was common but wanted checking out as I was scared as last Oct I miscarried 'naturally' at 12 wks. On Sunday baby was fine, it's little heart was pumping away, I saw it's fingers wriggling, we took big sighs of relief. The scanographer did mention that there was something that she wasn't sure about and she'd get it checked out by someone else. We didn't pay much attention to that. We got a phone call on Tues saying that we needed to go in again as there was a possibility of an abnormality, we got given the name of cystic hygroma but we had no idea how seriously to take this 'possibility'.
Until Thursday.
I am now booked into the the gyne ward for pills on Tues, then more tablets on Thursday to induce the miscarriage, although what I've read so far sounds like the experience may be more like a labour.
I guess I'm just wanting to gear myself up for the trauma of it all, as at the moment I seem to be in the fairly pain free land of shock and denial.
Any words of support would be greatly appreciated.
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In land of the numb, 17 wk baby has just died with cystic hygroma
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cupoftea123 · 01/05/2011 09:57
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