basically that really?
stbxh is in the habit of asking the night before he wants to see dd, and as much as I've always compromised with him in the interest of dd, I do feel he is taking liabilities now. I've worked with him to put a routine in place for seeing dd but this far he hasn't stuck to it (his choice).
He has 1 weekend a month, and a midweek over night during the month (again his choice). I've asked if we can sit with a calender and work out when he is having her but he won't, he seems to feel it's ok to ask the day before .
He won't compromise any time with ow, or work (he forgets that I work with him, and as a senior to him I know when he works), yet work are very keen to assist him where they can.
I just feel myself and my family (childcare when at work) are not on standby for him .
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Ladylou83 · 09/01/2013 18:31
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