Moving to Bangkok with 2 kids...

(34 Posts)
annabellesmum Thu 18-Oct-12 20:26:39


DH has been offered a job in Bangkok...we have 2 DDs (2 & 4) and I wanted to find out if anyone had recommendations on international schools/ places to live (his office is in the centre of the business area).

Feel a bit overwhelmed so any advice would be much appreciated!

Thank you

NickThorne Tue 12-Aug-14 12:49:53

As mentioned Bambi is definitely worth talking to before coming out. For a really quality school at a lower price take a look at British Early Years Centre. The owners are qualified teachers and they are really up to date with current trends. The school offers a 100% organic menu and uses allergen free cleaning products.

Moise123 Wed 27-Nov-13 12:27:57

Hi, we are moving to Bangkok in feb 2014 and we like the look of Thonglor - Ekkamai. We have 2 kids under 3. Can anyone recommend a great complex for us to live with other expat families? Thanks

annabellesmum Sun 21-Jul-13 14:06:43

Also, I would recommend getting hold of the Bangkok Guide, produced by the ANZ Women's group - it has tons of information, very detailed and helpful and a huge section on settling in. It has just been republished so the info is very up to date

annabellesmum Sat 20-Jul-13 10:00:04

Hi larose
We have been here 6 months and are settling in well. Our girls are happy here, but as ripsishere said, we don't often go to parks unless it's early morning...although having said that, it's quite a lot cooler here at the moment. We have a pool so the girls swim lots, and my older girl does a few after school activities - so usually by the time school has finished and we are home they just need some down time. We have decided to join the British Club as somewhere else to go at the weekend - fab pool, baby pool, playground and cafe. It's not cheap to join but we have been there a few times already with friends and spent the whole day there so it should be a good option for weekends/ school hols.
I take my youngest to a playgroup once a week and we also do swimming there is a fair bit to do, and I have found people to be, in the main, extremely welcoming and it has been pretty easy to make friends.
Also, having help at home is a huge benefit - it means family time is spent doing fun things rather than chores
Feel free to PM me

ripsishere Tue 02-Jul-13 02:23:38

There are parks, but TBH, unless you are there super early or relatively late in the afternoon they are too hot. OTOH, my DD never seemed fussed by the heat.
She spent more time at the Children's museum at Chatuchak than anywhere else. She also went to Bambi playgroups and started school ASAP. More for the socializing than anything else since she is an only child.
I envy you.

larose Thu 27-Jun-13 06:55:09

Btw - if any one could share what they do with their kids day today that would be great - just wondering if there are green open play areas, toddler groups, activities for kids. Is it too hot to be outside with them loads etc? I'm finding it really hard to think how life will be as only ever visited BBK prior to have kids! Thanks xx

larose Wed 26-Jun-13 22:06:44

Hi Annabellesmum!
I know u posted a while a go but I am really intrigued to know how things worked out for u and ur family in Bangkok. DH just been offered job there and we also have two little ones (18 months and 4). Just be great to hear ur experience of settling in with kids etc so far. Xx

KathieC Tue 09-Apr-13 14:58:50

Thanks for the information, it has really helped, I am starting to get excited now, but I may have a
Few more practical questions at a later date if you don't mind lovely ladies

Happy see you re-assured. Bangkok is a very friendly place.

Am also one who feels much safer walking the streets of Bangkok than those of many European capitals. No hordes of moody hooded teenage yobs and a funily very relaxed pace in such a busy urban environment.

cant offer advice on schools, i guess it depends a bit on where you want to live.
I stayed with a friend in December and really liked the condos in the back streets of the Sathorn area.
Ekkamai is turning into a trendy euro enclave and also feels very relaxed considering its so central.


ripsishere Mon 08-Apr-13 02:09:10

We lived in Bangkok for four years. I felt safer there than I did in either Switzerland or Belgium.
We did have a car and it was useful to get around, although the traffic is so horrendous sometimes it seems unecessary.
If you are at BPS, the skytrain goes right out to the end of Soi Bearing which is the road that runs parallel to Soi Lasalle.
DD had all her vax and medical treatment at BNH or Samitivej.
She had her rabies vaccinations before we got there at the London hospital for tropical diseases. They were painless.
Stop panicking!

KathieC Sun 07-Apr-13 17:14:41

Thanks again that is reassuring, really am very grateful for your comments.

TheBossOfMe Sun 07-Apr-13 16:15:20

And definitely contact Bambi, very helpful at showing new expats around:

I wouldn't worry too much if you are coming as teachers, though. Teachers are the largest expat profession in Bangkok and British ones are very common. You certainly won't be a target, and unless Patana have suddenly got very generous, you won't be living a lifestyle that warrants much attention. You are likely to be comfortable and not have much to worry about financially, but nothing that will make anyone stalk you or anything! So no need to worry about that. And you will be living in a sociable community with plenty of opportunity to make helpful and gregarious friends. Good luck!

TheBossOfMe Sun 07-Apr-13 15:21:14

If your husband is working at Patana, you will probably be living in Bang Na or nearby. I would say a car is a must. You can rent rather than buy from Budget, which may be easier. It's expat central round there, no shortage of Brits!

Do feel free to PM, happy to show you the ropes a bit when you get here.

KathieC Sun 07-Apr-13 12:26:28

Thanks for your information that really helps, school would be bps where dh would be working and we d be put up in a complex / flat near by. I guess I am simply scared of the unknown.

soonmoving Sun 07-Apr-13 10:08:30

Can I barge in here and ask if anyone knows where the UK diplomatic staff in Bangkok send their children to school? As this would be sensitive information, if anyone knows, could they send me a pm please?

TheBossOfMe Sun 07-Apr-13 09:48:42

Btw, there are 1000s of British expats living in Bangkok, its really not unusual. You will find it harder to make Thai friends than you will to make British ones.

TheBossOfMe Sun 07-Apr-13 09:47:05

Stop worrying!

Malaria is non-existent in Bangkok. Dengue is easily prevented with a once a day application (daytime) of insect repellent. Rabies, well, just teach your kids not to approach stray dogs. Same as in any country. I've never heard of anyone here getting rabies. If you do get bitten, straight to the hospital for a wound clean out and a rabies shot. Hospitals are like 5 star hotels.

Bangkok is incredibly safe. I feel much safer here than in London as far as robbery, theft, burglary goes. I have never heard of an expat home being broken into, especially if you live in a condo. I've never known anyone be mugged, a couple of handbag thefts in bars, but that's it.

Btw, it might be poor in general, but there are a lot of very rich Thais living in Bangkok, especially in areas such as Sukhumvit and Sathorn, as well as Bang Na and Nichada. Lamborghinis and Porsches are not that rare, Mercedes and BMWs are ubiquitous. The malls are full of people buying Chanel, Hermes and Prada. It's not exactly living somewhere like Darfur. Trust me, you won't be a target. Not unless you are richer than Madonna.

Just live your life with the same safety precautions that you would in the uk and you will be fine.

I hate gated complexes and the burbs, don't see the point of them and find them extremely dull and isolating, but each to their own. If you do live outside the city centre, a car is a must. Otherwise, you will have to risk taxis, and they might be cheap, but they don't have car seats (they don't in the uk either, for the most part). Bring your own car seat if you can, they are expensive here in comparison.

It's not exactly a hardship posting - many expats here have no intention of ever returning home. You just have to be open minded to different food, cultural norms, etc.

Do you have somewhere to live sorted? Schools? Happy to help with advice, feel free to PM me.

KathieC Sun 07-Apr-13 09:32:00

Hi my husband had accepted a job in Bangkok in 3 months time.
I am starting to worry so much I m almost ready to pull to plug.
I see you live in Bangkok, this is unusual but it's there any chance I could
Get a real understanding from yourself another British mum to help me with this. My main concern are; dengue fever, malaria and rabies any experience or feedback.
I am also worried re safety, it's obviously a poor country and we could be potential targets for theft, living in a guarded complex how real is a robbery threat and how do you feel walking about with little ones , safe?
Finally, transport, I ve read its an issue, do most expats but cars for the suburbs and getting out of Bangkok? What about travel into town , we d be near bps, do expats get in taxis without seat belts and child seats? I m worried that I would be able to get about.
My worries may sound silly in my 20,s it would nt have been a problem but with two little ones I do worry. I d really appreciate any help

ripsishere Wed 20-Mar-13 05:08:29

Yes, and plain cotton knickers. It's fine if you want nylon lace in a size to fit a twelve year old, sensible knickers? no chance.
Same with shoes, up to a size 4ish you'd be fine, any bigger and you face having them made or buying mens.

manyhands Tue 19-Mar-13 18:44:05

I remember that buying bras was a nightmare so I'd bring some.

alicantina709 Mon 18-Mar-13 06:52:40

Thank you ripsishere! smile

ripsishere Thu 14-Mar-13 02:23:48

Marmite, you could (can) buy it in Villa but it is ludicrously expensive. Also, if you bleed heavily super plus tampons. I never managed to find any above super.
Shoes for my DD were a problem, she has ridiculously skinny feet. Also, if you are a larger lady t.shirts. You can have skirts and dresses made at the tailor for pennies, the tops are more problematic.

alicantina709 Thu 14-Mar-13 01:25:06

Hi all! We will be moving to Bangkok in Mid May. Is there anything in particular that we should make sure to bring with us (vitamins/medicines/etc) or is everything relatively easy to find in Bangkok?

I have a three 1/2 year old son so when we go for our look see will be visiting schools/areas to live. Those of you living in Sukhumvit - do you like living in the area? I know that Sukhumvit is huge and I am worried about choosing the wrong place to live.

Currently we are living in The Philippines (Manila) so I would assume that it is similar (noise, pollution, heat, etc, etc!) but much better - esp when it comes to the food! smile

Any tips/feedback/advice would be greatly appreciated. I am stressing and my DH hasn't a care in the world!!!! ;)

BeanMachine Sun 30-Dec-12 06:37:06

Word of mouth is probably one of the best ways to find a helper: if you are moving into a building with lots of people in a similar position (expats/young family), ask around. A lot of maids/helpers have sisters/cousins/friends looking for work.

Another good place is on the BAMBI website - Bangkok Mothers and Babies international. There's a classifieds section with jobs.

Most families I know employ someone full-time (mon-Fri and sometimes Sat morning and/or one evening per week) to help with housework, shopping, cooking, childcare & babysitting.

My personal experience says that instinct is important: you need to be able to work / be with the person closely in the home. References are, of course, important, but I had an unlucky experience with someone with good references, then have had a very good experience with my current helper who had references but had only worked as a maid before (no childcare experience, although she has her own child). She is excellent and has worked for us for 2 years.

Many of my friends have Burmese helpers; they tend to have good English, but it is not difficult to find someone who speaks reasonable English.

Good luck with the move!

annabellesmum Sat 29-Dec-12 14:02:50

Thanks both...just in the process of getting things organised for the move at start of Feb...DH has been over there for a few weeks already so getting things sorted for us over there (thankfully he's home for Christmas!!)

One more you have any tips on getting/ managing help at home? I have no clue whatsoever on this, but (obviously) want to get someone who we are all comfortable with and who can do cleaning/ housework stuff plus (eventually) look after the DCs if we want to have an evening out, so English is a must. Any info or advice would be really appreciated!!

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