Hi never posted in legal before but need some advise desperately
my ex p and i have been split nearly a month. We have a 9 mth old and a 2 yr old together.
In that time he has not made any attempts to see his dcs and asked about them only once.
During our relationship there were massive red flags i should have headed and he was abusive to me in every way. I am no psychologist but in my opinion he has classic narc traits.
He is intent soley on controling me and uses the art of manipulation well. Im not sure he is a good influence to my dcs but has been an ok dad while he was with me. My older too dcs however were verbally abused by him on and off. He said himself our dcs together are just babys (so he cant control them yet) in my opinion.
If i need to refuse contact the only evidence i have are solicitors letters about contact with his other partners dcs which he was offered contact but he wished to play mind games with the mother threats etc and so she fled with her dcs who he hasnt seen since.
Thankyou for reading if u got this far.
He told me a while ago he had a brain condition which made him medically mad!
No proof! Will a judge listen if no hard facts are presented? Please help. X
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worst scenario i refuse contact. would a judge agree?
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Gottabbrave · 08/12/2012 20:03
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