major wobble about a dc4.... did everyone feel the same

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stickortwist Sun 14-Apr-13 19:22:55

We had sex this morning mid cycle with no protection and im starting to panic already!!!!!!!"

We have 3 boys aged 9, 6 and 3 1/2. I am lucky enough to be able to work part time in a well paid job i love. Dh works shifts around my hours so dont need any childcare. We have a 3 bed house. For the past 6 months we have been umm ing and ahing about a dc4. Dh is very for it. Some days i think we could cope. and then they boys fight(as they did today and the idea seems bonkers!!!!!!This morning we had a nice lie in by our standards and ended up having unprotected sex.I have always got pregnant very fast in the past. Dh is very hands on and very broody. Im not so sure. I worry about not having time for them individually and dull things like uni costs. But seeing our boys and how they are turning into lovely interesting people i wouldnt mind another peron in our family! I think we would cope but even though my pregnancies and births were straight forward they were bloody hard work!!!!

Arggghh seriously considering emergency contraception now. I havent angsted so much about the otjer boys.... Although only 1was planned.and the rest were contraception failures!! Does everyone feel like this?

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