Hi ladies
Realised I never came back and did the proper intro with the incredibly dull fascinating saga of my crap lining
Anyway here's the update from my appt on Tues with the case of the missing period and the 'will she or won't she have a proper bleed and clear out all the crap old dead lining' fun and frolics
So I'd done a stims cycle (freeze all for PGS) and amazingly grown 11mm of lining (whaaaaat?!) all by myself, so we thought I would finally have a proper period - assuming that the crappy non -bleeds I'd been having were because I'd never grown any lining to shed.
19 days post EC and I haven't had a bleed so after emailing in a panic, consultant gets me in for bloods and a scan
Basically it's all a bit of a mess down there
Hormones were all normal, progesterone was low so basically the 2 days of black clots was my period. Scan showed there didn't seem to be any thickened lining, but there is a visible 8mm old clot, so he's equally frustrated as my uterus just doesn't seem to want to give stuff up.
He thinks the lining I grew this cycle was probably not good quality, as he's concerned about the blood flow if I've only had a clotty bleed. So we're back to needing a good clear out first before we can start a FET
Plan A is a week of Provera to try and induce a bleed (currently taking now)
If that doesn't work I'm booked in for a HyCoSy in 2 weeks time to have a clearer look at the uterine cavity, with plan B being a month of cyclo-progynova (ie an HRT cycle),where we build fresh lining up with oestrogen and then try to have a withdrawal bleed off that.
Plan C is another hysteroscopy, but he's keen to avoid another op.
Said was fine for me to take a daily aspirin, and the 600mg vitamin E, plus the 6g l-arginine I'd added in post EC (may be detrimental to egg quality so didn't take during stims) in the mean time to help with blood flow, said they couldn't hurt. He's just as frustrated as I am, just really hope plan A works.
It's just really sad. The uterine artery blood flow was terrific. The thrombophilia tests showed no evidence of any underlying clotting disorders. But we don't know why I'm just clotting and not having bleeds. He said it might some kind of issue with the vascularisation of the endometrium which maybe compromised the blood flow to the foetus and that's why it died. Basically did my uterus choke the baby to death?  We just don't know.