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We believe her Ched Evans case

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boringnickname · 01/05/2012 17:05

Am pasting the OP as the thread reached 1000 and i think we need to keep this going.

Dear Mumsnet
As you are no doubt aware, there has been the most extraordinary hate campaign waged this week by some football fans, against a rape victim in the wake of the Ched Evans Guilty Verdict.

The jist of the hatespeak, has been that a drunk woman has no right to expect the basic human right of not having her body penetrated without her active participation in that sexual act, or even her passive consent. Presumably because men (or at least footballers and their friends) have the right to penetrate women who are incapable of consent. And that if a man rapes you, it is because you are a slut, a slag and all the other hate-speak words used to de-humanise women and make it easier for people not to empathise with us when we are abused.

This week has seen the really ugly spectacle, of a bunch of men asserting their right to rape women, handmaidens supporting that right and both of them sending out a clear warning to all other rape victims, to know what to expect if they dare to pursue justice if they are raped.

If there had been a similar outpouring of hatred against any other historically oppressed group, the rest of the media would have been tearing their hair out analysing why some men hated this group so much, where the hatred came from, why it existed, what could be done about it; but ironically apart from the Daily Fail, there has been very little comment in response to the Twitter hate-campaign. If Twitter had buzzed with indignation at the jailing of the man who posted hate-speak about Fabrice Muamba, I?ve no doubt that the FA would have tracked down the posters and banned them from football matches. Because they?re busy kicking racism out of football. Sexism, though, is fine. They can give a bloody award to a convicted rapist, while their supporters conduct what must be a terrifying hate campaign against his teenage victim? right now, football fans don?t look all that much better than the Taliban, do they?

Mumsnet, will you use the voice you have against this horrible hate campaign? Will you tell the woman that Ched Evans raped, that We Believe Her? Will you ask the FA to state publicly, that they too, believe her and that in future, they will work as hard to kick sexism out of football, as they do to kick racism out?

Thank You.

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boringnickname · 01/05/2012 17:06

Apologies is this has been done already but i didnt want this to get lost

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BasilFoulEggs · 01/05/2012 17:08

With regard to the idiot Lib Dem candidate in Basingstoke who was outraged that a rapist should get a five year sentence, I've started another thread here so that this one doesn't get side-tracked.

Has links to the three main parties in that area (Chineham). Smile

StrandedBear · 01/05/2012 17:09

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Kaloobear · 01/05/2012 17:14

I tried too-thanks for the second post. I believe her.

ZZZenAgain · 01/05/2012 17:23

I really appreciated AJsDaddy's honest and thoughtful post at the end of the original thread. It is good to hear the decent voice of football

MyDogShitsShoes · 01/05/2012 17:47

Agreed, great (if long!) post by ajsdaddy. Seemed very heartfelt to me.

The overriding feeling I got was sadness though. Pure and simple sadness at what football culture has become.

I'm getting more and more frustrated trying to make the idiots see reason. Yes, I know it's probably impossible but I won't stop trying. To give up is to accept it and I can't do that.

This is my most recent tweet. Any better suggestions gratefully received, I only joined yesterday so not well practised at being so succinct yet!

@MyDogShitsShoes. So many people spectacularly missing the point. Too drunk to say no = too drunk to say yes! #IBelieveHer

BasilFoulEggs · 01/05/2012 18:58

Two follow-on threads started at the same time so to cut down on confusion, could everyone please post on

this one?

Thanks

MyDogShitsShoes · 01/05/2012 19:07

I'll hop over now!

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