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Hi

This is my first thread so hopefully it will work.

My problem is that since the birth of my 1st son I find vaginal sex to be sore, something I was told is partly due to my pelvis being rotated. My DH likes sex but he keeps going and going (normally a good thing) until it just aches too much and the fun is well and truly over. I have lived with this for 11 years now and I hate it. DH has suggested bumsex but noooo way. He's very understanding about the condition but what the hell can I do about it now?

Hi,

Have you been to see an osteopath?

Because if you haven't then you should...

I haven't Kitkatqueen despite being asked to by DH on so many occasions, or at least see the doctor. I feel a bit stupid to say the least but I was curious to hear from any other sufferers of this condition to see if it was salvageable.

Thanks for the advice. I will take it further.

You need to get to a PT or at least a chiro. I live with this also. About sex, any position where you are not straining is best. If you are on the bottom or in a kneeling position you shouldn't experience pain. You need to correct your pelvic position or risk many other complications with your back and legs. Trust me!