I'm going to delete the app from my phone and try to forget about this poisonous forum for a while. It may do me good and I might even find the time to read a book for once. Before I go I would like to say that I strongly despise all those posters who: - hijack threads because they feel the need to open a debate over something you're not even asking about in your OP. e.g. If you ask advice on how to (not whether to) do cc. You just can't do that on MN because a whole army of harpies barge in to say you will fuck up your child if you do. Did I ask their opinion? I don't think so. But they won't go away. - accuse me of being a shitty parent and tell me things like "shame on you" but expect me to take it all in my stride because I asked AIBU? Erm, no...I'm prepared to be told I'm being unreasonable not that my DS is going to grow up a fucked up teenager because I'm a shit mother!!! Basically I've been depressed all day more than once because people are so shitty on this website. Other times I've sought advice and haven't managed to get any without people being judgey and digressing like on the cc topic. Sure there are lovely people on here, but I feel there are far too many of you MNers who are just saddos who moan and don't complain and take out your frustrations by swearing at people on here. Well I won't be one to take the swearing anymore.
AnnaLiza, I think you're being a tad unfair, have looked at your posting history and it seems pretty obvious to me that you have received and given support to others during your time here. Maybe have a break and a name-change?
Yes - people are rude and opinionated here. And very kind and loving and giving, and unselfish, generous and rude and opinionated. And funny, and thoughtful, and witty and humorous and plainly mad, and rude and opinionated. And wise - whatever you are thinking of - someone already did it. So when you are ungrateful for their advice, they come across as rude and opinionated.