I think it's time I admitted that I have a problem. I am SOO sick of my mind wandering back to my STBXH... It has been 6 yrs!! I am soo sick of remembering all the good times and going over the bad times in my head. It does no good. I am SOO sick of dreaming of my STBXH of the way things were, or possible getting back together dreams.
I am tired of conversation which eventually lead back to... "when STBXH and I were together..."
I admitted to my DS22 and his g/f about this... I have even talked to my dad about it... (he just listens) Heck... I'll even suggest to my dad to contact my STBXH for advice (mechanic) or whatever!! (instead of calling my current DP) etc.
I am emotionally tired of everything involving my STBXH.
I hate seeing him on those every other weekend exchanges and avoid them if I can, as it is incredibly painful for me.
Seriously...
I don't treat my DP anything like I treated my x. He has been wonderful. A few years ago, I wanted to try and go back...and my DP understood. Of course I was shot down and he went back to his first wife instead.
I told DP I want to get my divorce finalized, and maybe...just maybe... it will help letting go. He's willing to do what it takes for me to be happy.
I need to stop my mind from wandering..... hope I'm not the only one that has/had this issues...as it is soo frustrating....and painful.
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Mother2many · 27/04/2012 04:35
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