need to stop all this crap and get along!

[divorcedrama37]

Really need some advice, over the last two years of being separated hubby and I were on and off and now its definitely off and we are going thru divorce process. He has met someone else and although there for the kids, he seems to be more interested in new gf and her child. I admit I have had text rows etc which I regret and am trying to remain amicable now for the sake of the kids (2 ds) I came home last night to a 5 page letter from the mother in law telling me the marriage break down was my fault, Ive ruined his life and need to get help! Now whilst I am aware I could have behaved better on times, is there really any need for these insults? There is never just one person to blame I feel and really dont think its her busines. She
has asked to visit me this evening to discuss, Im not sure! Help!

[sloggies]

Thought my answer would be better than no answer...I personally cannot see any benefit in this. It sounds like she is just likely to verbally attack you from what you have posted. It is not, IMHO, her 'place' to intervene on her son's behalf, and does not sound likely to improve relations. You need not fall out with her, but I would be reluctant to meet under these circumstances frankly. Good luck, and I think you are doing the right thing trying to remain civil.

[GettinTrimmer]

Just read your post. I hope you managed to sort something out without falling out with her. Good luck x