DP is requesting that I start to give her perenium massage. She is 30 wks.
This is our 2nd pregnancy. For the first one I did perform said duties but found that it did affect my libido for a long time. Also whilst in this zone during the 1st we went to a hypno-birthing class and it was determined that amoungst the women that were doing this no DH was doing it for them - they were all managing to reach!
This time we are currently having regular IC and I feel that if I start with the perenium massage it will signal the end of the IC.
I would like a response from both as to whether they have given or received PM. Also ladies - she claims she can't reach it herself (I don't believe as she manages to wipe her own bum!)

gawd
would NEVER have asked dh to do this. did it myself for the 1st, didn't bother for the next 2

IC - intercourse

IC ??

your second pregnancy ??

sorry, cannot take you seriously

This HAS to be a wind up - massaging your wife's perineum would put you off sex?? Do you normally not touch it when you have sex with her then?

My hubby had his hand up inside me massaging a lip on my cervix that wasn't dilating when I was in advanced labour, didn't put him off!

Bizzare.

ROFL.

Perineal massage not leading to intercourse?

That wasnt the way it worked around here

OK guess I'm on my own.
We've discussed and hopefully the massaging will lead to IC (Intercourse) as suggested!

Last time did alot of massaging and got very little intercourse. Then DW had a C-Sect!

Wish us luck - due mid Jan

hey buckingbronco - hope it all goes well for you, my friend. hang in there and things will soon get back to normal.

the rest of you should be ashamed of yourselves. no wonder people (especially blokes) get put off coming on this site . . . jeezus!

<snigger> at this.

<heavy sigh>

Hello troll.