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DS took 47.5 hours from waters breaking to delivery, including about 2 hours pushing... my obstetrician has told me that 'typically' second labours are about half as long, with about 20 mins for the pushing stage. So should I be settling in for a 24 hour effort for number two? I was hoping it would be a little quicker than that! If you had a long first labour, how long was the second?
Have hope, my first labour with DD(7) was 44 hours so you have my sympathies (should have been a emergency c-section but they missed the signs - but thats another story). On the other hand, the second with DS(3) took 82minutes!!! I just wish he now showed the same willingness to get things done so quickly . Good luck!
from first contraction to being out DS1 36 hours, DS24 hours from 5cm to birth DS1 6 hours DS2 1 hour.
I feel that DS1 would have been quicker if I had been more active, I did the whole save my strength thing and tried to rest where as when the midwives changed on the Sunday she got me marching round and going up and down stairs.. that got things moving.
With my Ds my first contractions started at 6.30pm and he was born at 10.50 the following morning. Dd...the first contractions woke me up at 6.30am and she was born at 5.15pm the same day, so definitely shorter.
Thirty seven and three-quarter hours for the first labour, twenty-four for the second and just over twenty for the third - sorry.
Mind you - the second stage did shorten dramatically - from an hour and a half first time to a minute and a half second time and two contractions third time!
From the first contraction to giving birth to ds was 24 hours/ventouse delivery. I had absolutely no desire to push, hence the intervention. Had been havin bh with dd for a few days but from proper contractions to giving birth was 20 hours but I stayed at home for most of it (ds was off school as he was poorly), only had gas and air and it was a completely different experience. Wasn't pushing for very long at all with dd and I was standing against the bed as opposed to lying down with all sorts of monitors and gubbins. Although both labours were fairly long, the second was a much easier birth. Good luck!
oh this has made me feel better!! I was about 48 hours with my son, had emergency section in the end (thank God!) we are planning on having a baby next year when we get married and I have been very scared about going through that again.
ds1 28 hours ds never really got started. contrtactions 20 mins apart and not painful, MW came out to me and said 'oh, you're fully dilated' . from 1st niggles to delivery about 5 hours