Just to reassure you - not all inductions are so bad. Do you know if your cervix is at all favourable yet?
I went in in the evening for an induction, they monitored me for a bit, gave me the gel, monitored for another 30 mins, then left me to sleep. All this was in a private room with DH there too (sleeping on a mattress). They came in around 6.30am by which time my frequent BH had got a bit more frequent & uncomfortable (ie. my body was slowly getting going), found me 2ish cm, and broke my waters. From there, no time for the breakfast I'd ordered, contractions came thick & fast. After breaking the waters they said i was just about 3cm so officially in labour, and was soon transferred to a delivery room. No wards at all. DS born around 2pm.
To be honest I hardly had time to think about the fact I was in a hospital once they actually started with the monitoring/gel etc (we had to wait a bit before they actually did that), I was too focused on what I was feeling. And I am a control freak too!
My inductino didn't get to the stage of oxytocin drip or any interventions like epidural - anyway we went home the lunchtime after DS was born, and apparently the only reason for waiting was that the paediatrician was only available in the mornings!
Good luck to you!