Hi there - quite new to this care malarky - mum has been diagnosed with osteoporosis after several vertebrae had collapsed during the last six months. Mum is now in alot of pain and has difficulties with moving and needs a walking frame. We have a carer morning and evening with bed/wash/breakfast/supper routine. I then go at lunchtime to cook lunch/leave food for tea, do shopping etc. It has been a steep learning curve and here are some of the things we have learnt:
*move the phone next to settee by buying a looong extension line - take this line up and over doors etc if needed (we tried to take this across the carpet with a mat over it but had problem with the walker)
*Have a table next to settee with everything in easy reach for the day - drinks, snacks etc.
*put all medicine into small plastic box on table - makes them easier to reach and find.
*leave a small pad and pen on table for writing things to remember - shopping etc
*morphine causes constipation - keep up with the laxative!
*constipation (and morphine) can cause nausea and vomiting - keep strategically placed buckets available!
*when nausea/vomiting occurred and mum couldn't eat anything other than a few bites of toast plus few sips of water each day - we discovered complan!
*have also discovered nutren build up soup as an alternative to complan
*when laxatives work too well, or just can't get to the loo in time due to poor mobility have ready prepared fresh knickers with tena lady already in for those minor accidents.
These may seem obvious to those that have cared for a while but they have taken us several attempts to find something that worked! So the question is - are there any other care tips that you have and can share for us newbies!
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cuppateaplease · 19/06/2009 09:42
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