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We live over here, but my elderly and increasingly infirm mother (widowed, housebound) lives in Italy, with all the angst and guilt and air fares that entails. I'm wondering (anguishing, let's be honest) about the practicalities (never mind the emotional implications!)of bringing my mother to live over here.
I'm thinking about pension arrangements... housing options (our house is NOT an option)... Has anyone done anything similar? Is there such a thing as sheltered housing or a care home catering for elderly Italians in the London area? My mum speaks English but surely there must be other elderly Italians around?
We're working out a series of very difficult alternatives, including paying for a badante over there, care home over there, etc. Unfortunately our finances don't stretch to a dream scenario where we could rent my mum a flat near us and hire a carer. Before anyone asks, there is no one living near my mum in any fit state to look after her, and we can't move there.
Any experiences or advice appreciated, I'm just all tied up in knots.
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hope2 · 20/10/2010 12:21
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