Really sorry, I need to vent because I'm so upset right now. My family situation is thus: I live with my mum, her parents and her brother. My uncle has been paralyzed from the chest down since before I was born, and has always needed 24 hour care. I help out during uni holidays and a little bit during term time.
2 years ago, some things happened which I won't go into, but it means he's now basically confined to his bed. This is hard enough for all of us, as he obviously can't move so we're in and out of his room constantly sorting drinks, TV etc. Not a problem, we're used to it.
He's got a chest infection :( He's being difficult, refusing to have the head of the bed raised, even though he knows it'll help his chest, etc etc. Wants to get the doctor out even though 2 qualified nurses live here (well, one, my mum. My gran retired but she stills knows what's good!), which would probably end in him being taken into the local hospital, which would not be good as it was his previous stay that caused some of the problems.
So my parents are being run ragged with no respite, I'm doing what I can even though I'm back at uni. Everyone's shouting and arguing :(
I don't like arguing and shouting, makes me quite upset for some reason (I've always been a sensitive thing though). Aaaaargh actually can't wait for uni tomorrow so I can get out of the house!
I know, that makes me sound horrible but it's just not very pleasant here right now and won't be til my uncle's chest infection clears up :( That could take WEEKS!
If you've read all that, thanks. It's off my chest now and I will be able to go to sleep and not lie awake upset and worrying. OK, I'll worry because any chest infection in my uncle could turn nasty, but you know, I won't have these thoughts of "why us?" in my head.
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LollipopViolet · 26/09/2010 22:13
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