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Is it worth buying a breastfeeding pillow?(41 Posts)
I'm due in a week or so with DC1 and wondering whether or not to buy a special pillow/cushion?
If so which ones are good? I've seen V shaped ones, squared off ones.....allsorts.
I guess anything that helps with breastfeeding is good but am a total novice so am relying on your wise advice ladies!
Forgive my ignorance something witty but what is a zombie thread? Just wanted to say that the genius of the Thrupenny Bits cushions are that they convert to a bag after breastfeeding, I still use mine 7 years on as a bag and when I have my twins will re-insert the inner cushion and carry on using it for individual feeding, well that's my plan anyway!
Oops sorry didn't realise zombie thread!
My local baby cafe lends out pillows - I borrowed a My Brest Friend for six months totally free. Perhaps see if that's an option where you are? I have a long sausage beanbag (thermaline I think) which I love for feeding in bed and I now use it all the time for sleeping too. BF pillows aren't essential by any means but if you have space and the money then I'd certainly recommend. DH keeps saying "when youre done bf the pillow will go won't it?". Out of my cold dead hands.
It's got to be the Thrupenny Bits breastfeeding pillows every time! www.thrupennybits.co.uk I'm currently scouring the internet looking for a good twins breastfeeding pillow as I'm expecting twins in November (eek!!) and this is the second thread I've come across asking which is the best breastfeeding pillow. Although I see this is an old thread I felt compelled to comment as I really struggled with feeding first time round until I found these pillows which seem to be very much under the radar for some reason. I fed both my boys using the gorgeous Thrupenny Bits breastfeeding pillows, I too had a widgey (tried the enormous my breastfriend as well!) to begin with which was great at home but far too awkward to carry around and I'm sorry to say rather ugly on my sofa! I just couldn't feed without a decent pillow and needed a portable one, these were my life saviour at home and in the park, in a cafe, at friends houses, on a plane, well everywhere! Just couldn't have managed without them and I wish they did a decent twins pillow because if they did i'd buy one. I hope that helps any new Mums who don't know what to buy, I know it's minefield out there! Anyone else on still on this thread, I'm assuming breastfeeding is long past and if anyone can recommend a good twins pillow I'd be really grateful!
Never bought one and have bf both of mine. Just bought some nursing bras and breastpads and eventually bought a 2nd hand pump, well after a few months. I do tend to only buy baby stuff as and when I need it though, if I bought too much I wouldn't have been able to stay off work for so long and we'd have a house full of
even more crap
You can also buy spare covers for the Brest Friend (argh, ridiculous name), I got one on EBay. V handy for when one cover gets urped/explodey pooed on.
ps I dont ever take it out with me- I just make do - but if you have a squirmy/fussy feeder, I think a cushion like the BF does make things easier
i have found mine to be great and would definitely recomend one - it keeps me ion the right shape when feeding and stops my back and arms getting sore. i would say a nice firm one is essential to keep the baby at the right height. i bought a widgey from amazon and highly recommend!
I love the Brest Friend. I think it's useful in the early days when the baby is very "floppy" and needs to be supported/ held in the right position. The real benefit of it vs other cushions is that you strap it on so you can then pick the baby up and sit down to feed rather than holding the baby and trying to arrange the cushions around you. They last forever and the sover is washable so maybe look online for a second hand one. Mine has been used by me, then two of my friends, then back to me for DC2 and then going back to one of the friends who is due her second, and is still in perfect condition
Another fan of the My Brest Friend (and heh, like the idea of it being a "mummy shelf") - allows for one handed feeding, nice and firm, baby doesn't end up rolling towards me, and also props baby at just the right height. I have a very long torso and often end up in really uncomfortable positions trying to hoist DS in the vague direction of boobs. I can manage with a pile of pillows in bed and just make do when I'm out and about, but the shelf is a godsend for most feeds.
Never used my fat or thin v shaped pillows, as normal pillows were five to lean on, but I couldn't get ds up to the right height with normal or v pillows as he'd roll down the slope where they met my body.
So after a week bfing at the computer so the desk held pillows in place, I got a My Brest Friend, or the mummy shelf as it's called round here. Enabled one handed feeding as I need to hold a breast with my hand to point it in the right direction.
Spent £30 on one from mothercare. Used it for a few days only whilst establishing BF. Complete waste of money and currently cluttering our tiny flat.
Not as much of a waste as my breast pump though. £70 and used a few times. I'm not BF anymore so it's completely redundant.
Gutted for my bank account
absolutely. had a widgey u-shaped one. without it I got very tense in my shoulders from holding baby with the arm
and I could easily read or mn with it as had both arms free
I thought they were ridiculous and screwing money out of unsuspecting pregnant women, when I was a pregnant woman. Ho ho ho. Never managed comfortably with a stack of normal pillows (and carting three pillows around the house was not much fun either) and at 2wo got a widgey - brilliant. Didn't use it for long at all (maybe to 8wo at a push) but have had some use out of it for DS to sit in etc and it was such a godsend that it was still worth it.
I'd maybe buy one and not unwrap it til you've tried with normal pillows, though - some women clearly are totally fine without so you could return it if you turn out to be one of them!
Definitely get one, someone bought me one when DS was a few days old and I couldn't believe how much easier it made feeding! I had a c shaped one.
And another use - I can put the Boppy on my lap, then comfortably breastfeed DD at the dinner table while I eat with the rest of the family. I use it for putting DD in far more than a baby chair/bouncer at the moment.
I didn't have one with my first child (bf her for a year) and was given a Boppy breastfeeding pillow when I had my second DC (now 10 weeks old). I LOVE it and can't believe I managed without one.
It is so much more comfortable feeding, and I also prop the baby up in it a lot, eg after a feed while she digests, and do tummy time with it. Other people in the family also use it when they're cuddling her/she's asleep on their lap, including my 3-year-old daughter, as it supports the baby's head while she holds her.
I think they're about £30, or there are cheaper non-brand models. I really recommend one.
Yes! I found most specially designed bf pillows expensive ( especially as I wanted to buy spare covers, stale milk/baby sick smells, or a wet pillow is NOT nice) and too soft.
But they are essential if you want to get in a position that won't ruin your back, shoulders or upper arms while you bf. so I bought a memory foam V pillow (from Dunelm I think) with a spare cover. Being memory foam it is nice and firm and quite heavy, so it doesn't slide around.
See if you can try various ones out before you buy. And don't worry if bf doesn't work out they are great for getting comfy for bottle feeding and for tummy time as baby grows!
A V shaped pillow was good for the early days and evenings/ night-time when you might want to be in bed. I used mine quite a bit. BF in plenty of other positions/ situations too though !
I've got a my breast friend which I no longer use. I can give it to you, if you PM me address. It was good but I only used t while establishing breastfeeding.
Comfiest position is lying down or snuggled on sofa. No extra cushion needed.
I got a widgey from eBay for £10 and it was the best tenner I ever spent! I can BF 7 week old DD and eat my dinner at the same time, I love it.
I got a Widgey, like a U sort of shape.
It's brill - used it during pregnancy for back support, used in the car on the way to have the baby, never really used as a BF support pillow, used it to prop baby up, used it for baby while he was learning to sit, used as a seat for feeding solids, used to entertain small children who come to visit. Cost £20.
Some people are talking about the sort that go behind you to sit you up. I just use loads of normal pillows. I had a huge pregnancy pillow that can be used for that, butgave up on it after DS was born. Too big! DH gets upset cos it takes up so much of the bed he claims he has hurt his back sleeping funny.
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