Hello all,
I've never started a thread before because I've always been able to find the answers I need on this wonderful part of Mumsnet or elsewhere but this development has thrown me and my confidence and I'd be so grateful to hear anyone's advice or words of experience.
DD is 10.5 months old and exclusively breastfed. From a tricky beginning we have, I think, done really well, and I love breastfeeding her.
The last couple of weeks she's been a bit under the weather with cold, snotty nose and also teething - she's particularly suffered with teething even though she still only has two - poor thing.
On Saturday, when I went to feed her before bedtime as usual she tried to latch but immediately pulled off, arching her back and crying. She tried to latch again but this time just pulled her tongue back and bit me. I don't think I reacted strongly enough to have frightened her but she hasn't breastfed since .
I have looked at Kellymom, and other resources, and keep offering the breast as suggested there but she does exactly the same thing - just bites me and doesn't want to latch. Is this a nursing strike do you think?
I'm worried that she won't come back to being breastfed - I'd hoped to keep going till at least 1 year and feel so concerned that it might end like this. It doesn't help that her sleep has gone haywire the last week or so and she's awake for large parts of the night when before she slept very well, maybe waking once in the middle of her 10 hours for a cuddle or quick feed and back to sleep. So DH and I are exhausted and this is making the rejection harder to take. Everything feels worse when you are tired doesn't it?
I'm sorry this is so long, my mind is racing as to what's going wrong, what should I be doing, will this pass? If she's trying to self-wean should I just keep expressing and cup feeding? If so, till when?
Again, I'm sorry for the essay - this is just making me so sad. I'd be so grateful for help to get this straight in my head, or to hear of similar experiences. I just can't find similar tales of the biting.
Thanks so much in advance.
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DD 10.5 months old - nursing strike/biting?
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ConcreteElephant · 06/12/2010 13:35
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