My 8 year old niece, who before I start is a nice girl, can however be really rude. We had a Halloween party at the weekend, she wouldnt join in with the games, scowled deeply at the food I had done, refused to eat it and when asked a question by anyone just didnt answer and screwed her face up. Am I right in saying this is rude? Im just wondering if theres a reason behind it. Apparently she talks to other grown ups at school and is perfectly polite, but I notice she is like this whenver I see her, she can never answer a question, like, How was your day at school? What have you been up to today? and on Sunday even Would you like a cake? Her parents, although embarrased, dont say anything so she does get away with it. When we went out trick or treating on Sunday she asked for food and ate it all and a drink, but wouldnt join in at the table at meal time. I really cant understand it. How should I deal with her, esp as I dont want to upset her parents.
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Help me understand why my niece behaves so rudely.
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pepsi · 03/11/2004 13:29
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