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My dd is 15 months old. Is very sociable and smiley with adults and big boys and girls, but show her a baby under the age of 2ish and she whimpers. Clings on, and freezes or jumps into my arms if they come anywhere near her. She's been like this since she was fairly little- certainly when she could crawl at about 8 months, never approaches over babies. We meet up at least weekly with a large group of friends with babies of the same age, and the others seem to be relatively unconcerned about the usual poking and prodding/rough and tumble that goes on, while dd positively cowers. I think dd is fab, but I do worry that she's going to be stuck on the sidelines rather than playing with other children of her age. I work part-time and my mother looks after her when I work, so she doesn't mix all the time with other babies. IS this reticence something she'll grow out of. I do sympathise with her - DH and I are quite outgoing, but I can see that babies of this age are unpredictable, don't necessarily give positive signals, may invade personal space etc. While I'm pretty outgoing now, when I was little I was probably classed as shy with peers (fine with adults) and while I'm fine now, I can't bear the idea of her feeling lonely or left out of the crowd when she's older. Any advice or reassurance would be greatly appreciated.
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DD hates other babies - she'll grow out of it, won't she?
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pooka · 21/10/2004 14:59
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