DD1 is so clingy it is really beginning to cause problems. She's been at her nursery school for quite some time but still cries every time i leave her even though she's always happy and tells me what a nice time she's had when i pick her up - it really is a 'hanging off the leg' situation everytime i leave her. Now that she is 3 i want her to be able to participate in ballet classes etc as loads more things open up to them at this age but every time i leave her she just screams and cries and gets so upset and it never gets any better with time or familiarity. I left her doing a class the other day for 30 mins and she cried the whole time and already she's crying again at the mention of going back. Even if i leave the house or she can't find me she gets ridiculously upset even if dh is there and it is totally out of proportion to the situation. All these things i've planned to get her involved in for her benefit just end up making me feel so bad yet in the back of my mind i know i can't just keep her at home with me 24/7 never leaving my side because how on earth will she cope when she starts school one day?! I know it's all part of natural development to become a bit more independent and start doing activities whereby i leave her and wait in another room until the class finishes but she is always the one i can hear screaming and going burserk. I just don't know what to do as it's really affecting our days, even if i leave her with dh to pop to Tesco or something for 30 mins the aggrevation it causes and the panic she expresses when i tell her i'm popping out is just so ott. This is a bit rambly i know but i would appreciate some advice on what to to. When she was younger and like this i thought she'd grow out of it but if anything it's getting worse.
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Ridiculously clingy 3 year old!! urgent advice needed please
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sportyspice · 25/09/2004 21:16
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