DD is 5. She started Reception in September.
She may or may not have learning difficulties related to a diagnosed medical condition, we're waiting and seeing on that one. It may or may not be relevant.
We are really struggling with her behaviour at the moment. Well, me in particular, as I have a shorter fuse than DH and DD saves her very worst behaviour for me.
Every morning is the same old story: 'Can you get your shoes on please?', 'Please DD, can you go and find your shoes?', 'DD, shoes please!', 'DD, here are your shoes. Will you put them on please?', 'DD, shoes!', 'SHOES!' ad infinitum. You get the picture.
She seems utterly incapable of following instructions and as I understand it, this could be a result of a LD, which is why I feel so awful going on and on and on and on about getting dressed, getting undressed, eating breakfast, staying at the table, leaving her sister alone etc. etc.
I try to give simple instructions as I know she would struggle to understand a whole ream of 'do this, do that'. I try to remove distractions her sister, but I swear she could find something to distract her in a plain white sealed cell.
I am miserable. She is miserable. Our mornings are traumatic. She is grumpy and uncommunicative when she gets up. She is grumpy and uncommunicative when she comes home from school. I KNOW she is exhausted. Continually exhausted. We need to slow down some and get her into bed earlier. We spend most of our weekends doing stuff. But just family and friends stuff. Nothing out of the ordinary: shops, birthday party, Grandma's for tea etc. I haven't started her with any swimming, dancing or whatever because I know she is knackered. She is usually in bed by 7:00-7:30 but is up by 6 every single bloody morning without fail. Occasionally I try to squeeze in a nap over the weekend (DD naps, not me. I should be so sodding lucky) and she is like a different child when she wakes up.
She is sunny, and kind, and funny and charming, but by God she is bloody awful too. Please tell me I am not alone.
It is so true that you are only ever as happy as your unhappiest child and our house is a pretty unpleasant moany, whingy, shouty place to be at the moment.
Any tips?
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DD(5) CANNOT follow instructions, rude and grumpy. Please tell me I am not alone!
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PointlessCow · 10/12/2012 16:42
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