If your parents / in-laws had named your children... ?

(47 Posts)
WhoPaintedTheLion Wed 06-Mar-13 21:05:09

Both sets of grandparents had their suggestions. If I had let them chose, I would have

DD1: Chantelle Jennifer (my mother's and MIL's choices)
DD2: Jasmine Lola (fil and father).

Their names are very, very different to those! It tickled me when I remembered that today.

MolotovCocktail Sat 09-Mar-13 20:42:59

Oh, MIL wanted Lily, too - for both DDs.

MolotovCocktail Sat 09-Mar-13 20:40:02

My Mom wanted Tallulah for DD1 and Lily for DD2. I remember she was actually quite peeved that we didn't name DD1 Tallulah. The day before I gave birth she tried to change my mind about the name we chose for her. That was naughty.

Arithmeticulous Sat 09-Mar-13 20:25:05

In 1970, my dad wanted to call my brother Micro. We didn't discuss names with him. Not that we discussed names with our mothers either- it was more the case of making a note of their suggestions and crossing them off our list.

nectarini1983 Sat 09-Mar-13 20:18:58

WildRumpus.... im intrigued as to what your first child's name is now..!!! Go on, spill.....

nectarini1983 Sat 09-Mar-13 20:16:21

Crystal and Skye are mine and my daughter's middle names ha ha!

BeeBopDingALing Sat 09-Mar-13 19:37:51

I have no idea. MIL would have probably named DD after herself because she is the most important person in the world. I'll ask next time I see her. I think it would have been quite a boring/traditional/family name though.

Gugglebum Sat 09-Mar-13 19:26:05

Mil I never would have asked since all she ever offered was how much she disliked whatever we suggested or did. If my mum had named my daughter, I'd have a Lily Rose. I actually like flower names, but that is a bit overkill for me.

Debs1990 Sat 09-Mar-13 16:13:08

I love the name Hermione but would never be brave enough to use it.

OkayHazel Sat 09-Mar-13 15:58:45

Mum was desperate for Hermione!

Debs1990 Sat 09-Mar-13 14:18:21

My mum liked Alan as that's what I would have been called if I was a boy. My step dad suggested John and DP's grandma liked Dwayne!

whyno Fri 08-Mar-13 12:40:11

My mum suggested Fanny. She genuinely wasn't joking.

MsAkimbo Thu 07-Mar-13 22:35:56

Sailor for a girl. Not even kidding.

Stixswhichtwizzle Thu 07-Mar-13 22:21:37

My 'D'm suggested Tiffany for my pfb! My lovely MIL said she'd named her children and was sure any name we picked would be lovely. I luff her. True fact.
My FIL had waaaay to many 'helpful' suggestions.

Wossname Thu 07-Mar-13 19:36:05

Lxie shock

Bowlersarm Thu 07-Mar-13 19:31:50

Mil liked Imogen and Joseph. I wasn't keen on either at the time but strangely enough love Joseph now and half wished we'd gone with it. DM I can't remember commenting at all on names. Our first choice of name was Jack, which she liked, but we didn't go on to use it in the end

WeAreEternal Thu 07-Mar-13 19:29:49

My parents would have gone for something like Kyle or Joshua or Daniel apparently.

I dread to think what MIL would have chosen. her four youngest are called Lxie (yes it is spelt wrong, MIL is a moron its intentional) Kenzo, Tanysia and kai.
they are 14, 10, 7, and 4.
she is in her very late 50 and trying for another apparently

Thankfully DP has a 'boring' name as he his brother and sister were all adopted and so were already named with ordinary names when she "got them" (as she loves to tell people)

I hate to think - If I had been a boy I was going to be Dougall Niall. shock

Wossname Thu 07-Mar-13 19:11:58

Pauline. This was 2 years ago.

Shesparkles Thu 07-Mar-13 19:07:05

We didn't have any suggestions, but had I been born a boy, I'd have been Robbie, which co-incidentally I wanted for ds but dh put the kibosh on <STILL glaring at dh about it 10 years later >

WildRumpus Thu 07-Mar-13 19:02:39

MIL lobbied hard for Kate or John when I was pg with our first. She looked like she was sucking on a lemon when we told her the actual name (foreign, several syllables, not just outside top 100 but actually outside the top 4000 in this country - ie weird!). She didn't bother lobbying for DC2. And by DC3 she seemed to think we were a lost cause but actually loved the name we chose.

DH and I like names that are quite outside the top 100, so thought the likelihood of anyone guessing them would be very low. We have a name for a DD, should we ever get one, and a back up five girls' names should we get twins-sextuplets girls! Of the five spare names we have, PIL have guessed one each!

I have loved the name Rochana since I knew a girl with that name at college 20+ years ago. DH likes the Rocky films. One night, FIL was round and Rocky was on, and FIL said 'Hey, if you have a boy you could call him Rocky, and Rochana for a girl'! I was shock! Rochana is hardly a name most people have even heard of! I think FIL made it up!
And then the other time, DH was interviewing for a job and the woman he was liaising with was called Tatiana. I have loved this name for years. MIL pipes up, 'Ooh, that's a lovely name, you should put it on your list!'

olivertheoctopus Thu 07-Mar-13 14:02:57

My parents have been very keen on Thomas with all our DS's. Nothing wrong with it per se but we have a v dull common surname and it would just be a bit 'meh'. Don't ever remember MIL suggesting any names but they would have been rejected!

KenDoddsDadsDog Thu 07-Mar-13 11:17:32

I met a lovely Kalliope on holiday and considered it in hormonal madness - the rest of the family have traditional irish names grin

alexpolismum Thu 07-Mar-13 09:25:18

MIL wanted to name dd after herself - Kalliope. Sorry, but it's not for me.

My mum would have chosen Catherine.

Ever since I was pregnant with DS1 (13), my mum openly expressed her love for Amelia, and her wish for me to use it if I had a daughter. My dad vetoed Amelia when I was born and repeated that veto when my sister was born.

My mum was disappointed when DD was born and we didn't use Amelia. She didn't say so, but I could tell.

Problem is, I cannot stand the name, and nor can DH. I dare not tell her that though.

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